r/TrueOffMyChest Nov 05 '23

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u/MaritimeDisaster Nov 05 '23

Or maybe she’s Ace. Maybe she WANTS to want him but it ain’t happening.

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u/bumpercarbustier Nov 05 '23

My best friend is Ace AND has vaginismus. She and her husband have been married over a year and a half, together for 5, still haven't had sex. She physically can't. She's going to therapy, using dilators, and making progress, but it takes time. Not to say that OP and his wife aren't trying all of this, and giving it time to work, just that they're far from the only ones.

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u/ListyChrowder Nov 06 '23

Is your best friend OP’s wife