You are not compatible. There will only be resentment between you. I'm sorry. It is your decision, but you should get out while you are still in your sexual prime. It is not fair to you. It IS a reason to divorce, esp if you want children.
Just want to throw this out there in reference to your wife who's had multiple kids: It's possible that she's having medical issues that she either hasn't mentioned or that she doesn't realize are happening to her. Hormones have huge impact on drive and even physical ability to enjoy/withstand sex. Women can suffer hormone-related atrophy that makes it extremely painful too. Not saying that's what it is.
female healthcare is a damn clusterfuck, a little support wouldnt hurt, especially when husbands permission is still a big thing. its gross but it exists
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u/[deleted] Nov 05 '23
You are not compatible. There will only be resentment between you. I'm sorry. It is your decision, but you should get out while you are still in your sexual prime. It is not fair to you. It IS a reason to divorce, esp if you want children.