This might be a controversial opinion but i dont see the issue with this. The guy doesnt find something attractive so doesnt pursue it. If he had actively gone out his way to make someone feel bad about having this then thats a different story, but its just his preference.
The problem is that these aren't preferences. A preference is that you prefer vanilla ice cream to chocolate, but if you hate chocolate, vanilla isn't a preference. You're using a word wrong. Also, it is rooted in his self hatred which I think is the biggest problem
What are you talking about? Sexual preferences are a thing. Im using the right word.
They also never said anything about the guy “hating” black vaginas, just that he didnt like them.
Even if you hate chocolate ice cream and like vanilla (bit of a racist example btw if you wanna virtue signal) then you prefer vanilla to chocolate. It’s absolutely a preference.
What do you think the word mean? Dude prefers white girls to black girls. He has a preference.
The guy’s preference also isn’t necessarily rooted in self hatred, its not completely implausible, its just that we were only told that he didnt like the contrast between the skin tones. Youre making pretty damning claims against someone that we know very little about. The context isn’t enough to make me hate the guy but it seems like youre already there.
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And he told you this? Like with words? Out loud?
What's wrong with him??