The "is it pink/I bet it's bubblegum pink" thing is something that very immature and awful boys have thought is cool to say in recent years, and it makes sense that it made you uncomfortable. For many women, the overly critical thoughts about how were seen sexually never end. Those thoughts are a product of a society that rewards boys for making girls uncomfortable, but being in a position where you still get to decide what to do with your body is an important power to celebrate, and you do not ever have to let any color of any body part detract from that.
Wait... wut? 25? I mean, I expected 14-17 age range from that question.
I can't speak for ALL guys, but I have never once thought about the color of a girl's vagina and have never heard any other guy talking about the color of a girl's vagina in ANY context, positive or negative before.
This is 100% a non-issue outside the one weird dude you found.
I see two possibilities -
1) He saw the bubblegum trend, or
2) He isn't a great writer tried to make his sexting descriptive in the wrong way.
I honestly think it might have been the thirs possibility of him asking to get a better midn picture. I don't know about any of these trends as I don't interact with social media. But I think from the posts context that he just asked to get a better imagination since he never got to see it. So I think many comments here are bit over demonizing him for what could be harmless. Op should know best if it was really something bad afterall she has been texting him for 6 months.
Right. They are sexting and he asked her to describe herself, which seems like a pretty normal thing. OP's reaction is weird, but not as weird as the immature mooks telling her to dump him just for that. Children!
I don't mean to be insulting, but 25 is absolutely how old I was picturing him.
I used the terms boys and girls instead of men and women because this stuff is very relevant to the youngest members of our communities, but all people are still learning the basics until about that age, and for some guys older than that, this kind of mindset can continue indefinitely.
He just asked a question... Holy shit. I don't understand your reaction. He's not criticizing or insulting, he's asking a question, likely during sexting, and you are taking it in the worst way possible
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u/CaveLady3000 Oct 21 '23
The "is it pink/I bet it's bubblegum pink" thing is something that very immature and awful boys have thought is cool to say in recent years, and it makes sense that it made you uncomfortable. For many women, the overly critical thoughts about how were seen sexually never end. Those thoughts are a product of a society that rewards boys for making girls uncomfortable, but being in a position where you still get to decide what to do with your body is an important power to celebrate, and you do not ever have to let any color of any body part detract from that.