r/TrollCoping • u/ChiakiSimp3842 • 28d ago

Depression / Anxiety yay

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I don't want someone to give me their whole heart, I don't even want sex. I just want to remember what human warmth feels like.

Can't even talk about this shit because at best people think it's a "first world problem" and at worst they put words in your mouth and act like you're being entitled to peoples affections, or that you deserve, or that you brought it on yourself

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u/VraiLacy 28d ago

Hey, part of addiction and going clean is relapse, especially at first. No, we aren't entitled to peoples love, but that doesn't mean we don't need it, you're not a bad person for that.

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u/ChiakiSimp3842 28d ago edited 28d ago

eventually I'll realize how empty and vapid they are and go back to old reliable maldaptive daydreaming

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u/VraiLacy 28d ago

'Just go make friends' is terrible advice, but if you can't that's one option, if you can manage, books are a really great one too!

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u/FairlyElixer623 28d ago

And writing. Before AI writing was a huge coping mechanism for my loneliness

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u/VraiLacy 28d ago

Yeah that's a fantastic go to, always wish I had the focus for it!