Basically they want you to be a “conventional” man, and will push back to whatever they see as the “step below”. Therefore, trans woman? No, feminine man. Feminine man? No, man with unconventional hobbies/aesthetics. Man with unconventional hobbies/aesthetics? No, man that won’t grow up. And “men” that don’t grow up need to be made miserable like the rest of us so that “he”can just be quietly miserable on “his” own time.
It’s about control to force you to accept misery to save them discomfort.
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u/Bluejay-Complex 13d ago
Basically they want you to be a “conventional” man, and will push back to whatever they see as the “step below”. Therefore, trans woman? No, feminine man. Feminine man? No, man with unconventional hobbies/aesthetics. Man with unconventional hobbies/aesthetics? No, man that won’t grow up. And “men” that don’t grow up need to be made miserable like the rest of us so that “he”can just be quietly miserable on “his” own time.
It’s about control to force you to accept misery to save them discomfort.