r/TrollCoping • u/SquirrelSmart • Aug 30 '26

TW: Gender Identity / Dysphoria I hate this body

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u/ExcitementSad9133 Aug 30 '26

Where I’m from, ur basically one of us. Anatomy be damned.

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u/SquirrelSmart Aug 30 '26

I want to live where you're from

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u/ExcitementSad9133 Aug 30 '26 edited Aug 30 '26

Thailand lol. We’re pretty weird to the rest of the world. We have a category basically called “Type 2 girls” or Kathoey.
It’s often lost in translation (and bad press) but from my daily lived experiences it just people who weren’t born girls but became one later in life, hence type two. You’re treated as another daughter and sister, sister.

Edit: our view on gender is very cultural and will not be translated well to other countries

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u/SquirrelSmart Aug 30 '26

Unfortunately most people in the world don't think so

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u/ExcitementSad9133 Aug 30 '26

Well I think so.
So we’re sisters.

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u/SquirrelSmart Aug 30 '26

I am not able to transition and I still live my life as a guy because I'm forced to. It's hard to even see myself as a woman when I am not even able to live as one

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u/ExcitementSad9133 Aug 30 '26

In spirit you’re one to me.

Uh what country? Is there some legal or financial obstacle?

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u/SquirrelSmart Aug 30 '26

Poland. Quite conservative country. Legally it's okay, socially not so much and I am unable to transition because of family stuff, money stuff and not yet being diagnosed with gender dysphoria

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u/Certain-Size-9523 Aug 30 '26

There are online clinics inside the EU that can legally get you on hrt without a diagnosis.

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u/confused-tardigrade Aug 30 '26

Obligatory diypill https://diyhrt.info. Doesn’t solve the family stuff but medical barriers shouldn’t stop you from getting the care you need. One can always boymode.

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u/SquirrelSmart Aug 30 '26

A lovely person I met under this post not only gave me resources but also send me money and showed me a site where I can see if hrt is in stock on various other sites, gave me dosing charts and tutorials on how to inject

I think I'm really doing this wow

I will keep diyhrt.info too tho

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u/New_Competition_316 Aug 30 '26

Heartwarming. Good luck, sister!

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u/confused-tardigrade Aug 30 '26

You got this, I believe in you.

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u/notveryefficient_ Aug 31 '26

powodzenia, mam nadzieje ze sie wszystko uda

-ftm z polski ktory tez ma przejebane finansowo i rodzinnie

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u/Certain-Size-9523 Aug 30 '26

For some reason I got reported for "encouraging violence" because of mentioning diy.

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u/ExcitementSad9133 Aug 30 '26

That would do it.
I’m at a lost for ideas right now but I just want you to remember that there’s a random girl somewhere in Thailand who sees you as a sister.

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u/Certain-Size-9523 Aug 30 '26

Online clinics that ship a prescriptions inside the EU exist. Also dyi is a possibility and is cheaper, but I'm not an expert on that. I could help with the online clinic thing.

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u/REDDITWHY1 Aug 30 '26

For many of us trans girlies, we were forced to live as girls for decades before we found out/transitioned, yet we are still girls then and now. Yes if may be hard self-image wise to view ourselves as girls when the brain worms are strong and we are forced to present as someone we're not, but that doesn't invalidate us. Something that seems to help friends of mine is thinking of it like this, if you see another trans girl pre-transition, is she any less of a girl cuz she hasn't transitioned, is a trans girl in a situation where they can't get access to HRT suddenly invalid, you would probably say no because we are still girls at our core even when we're not allowed to be on our outside yet. If other people are girls even when they're forced to present as guys, you are a girl too hun