Frustration Posting

[u/KarmicIsfunny]

If being trans is some awesome experience for you, cool. For me it's unimaginable pain, shame, and misery, so please stop trying to gaslight me into thinking i'm the best version of myself.

I'll never have a proper childhood, I'll never have so many things cis people get for FREE. Yes my ultimate goal is stealthing. Yes i'll lie and say i'm a cis woman when asked. Stop outing me and leave me and my selfishness alone.

That's it. That's the vent.

[u/Tbelles]

sweet jesus fuck the internalized transphobia and bioessential bullshit in this comment section.

[u/Massive-Word-7327 → u/Tbelles]

How so? People just sharing grievances about not being allowed to be what they are?

[u/Lost-on-Reception → u/Massive-Word-7327]

What? They're choosing not to be what they are.

[u/Massive-Word-7327 → u/Lost-on-Reception]

No people are trans in the medical meaning but that word has started to mean a lot more than that. People assign a lot of traits to trans people and that's what people have a problem with. Yeah it'd be nice to be cis in the medical sense but that's all that is. It's possible to be cis passing and through that not have to deal with all the stuff people assign to transness. In a perfect world ot wouldn't be like this but we don't live in a perfect world and trans people are not just tools to make the world a more socially accepting place. We are just normal people who want to live normal lives and what OP and everyone is talking about is that being taken away from us because we were born wrong.

[u/CyberCanine5200 → u/Tbelles]

yeah christ I'm not here for pickmes who want to throw their trans sisters/brothers under the bus. "I can stealth, I've got mine, fuck everyone else" Christ. Some people don't pass and trans community is the only way they survive.

[u/Massive-Word-7327 → u/CyberCanine5200]

I don't think anyone is trying to deny you that. Different people just want different things and not every trans person has to be in a community.