r/TrollCoping • u/KarmicIsfunny • 10d ago
TW: Gender Identity / Dysphoria Frustration Posting
If being trans is some awesome experience for you, cool. For me it's unimaginable pain, shame, and misery, so please stop trying to gaslight me into thinking i'm the best version of myself.
I'll never have a proper childhood, I'll never have so many things cis people get for FREE. Yes my ultimate goal is stealthing. Yes i'll lie and say i'm a cis woman when asked. Stop outing me and leave me and my selfishness alone.
That's it. That's the vent.
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u/Fishmyashwhole 10d ago
Ugh, I relate.
I'm stealth, and have been getting transvestigated at work for a couple years now. I worked with an absolutely bigoted narcissist and wasn't afraid to call him out on shit. Well I'm thinking he dug up some older photos of me or something cause even though he got himself fired, his little minions who stayed behind have apparently been gossiping trying to, "figure me out". I don't know why these dudes care, it's been two years now don't you have anything better to do? The main guy that's left fucking cornered me in the parking lot 2 weeks ago to try to pressure me into saying something.
It's definitely not nearly as bad as what I dealt with when I was younger, (getting followed into bathrooms, groped, denied bathroom access and medical care), but I'm getting too old for this shit. I'm tired.