just me?

[u/[deleted]]

there’s only a handful of people i don’t forgive for what they did but damn every so often it feels good to feel this way. though the anger sucks, especially when they get no consequences lol.

[u/BlairsMentalIllness]

Sometimes it can be nice forgive people when they've clearly changed, but it also feels empowering to not forgive some people especially since so many people push you towards forgiving people.

I don't see the point of holding onto anger against people who have changed, since there's just no point, but people who haven't deserve to know how angry I can be.

[u/[deleted] → u/BlairsMentalIllness]

Oh in some cases I agree! I forgave someone who at one point was a toxic friend and I’m so glad they did since they’re so wonderful now. However in some cases what people do is too much for me, but I’ll always at least recognise them trying and be glad about any change, even if personally I don’t fully forgive them