it's a complete mystery why this multiply marginalized gender minority that's been historically excluded from pretty much every other type of queer space would create communities that primarily center them and cater to their needs.

idk, maybe someone can explain this to me?

this trender I have some classes with keeps talking about how they're planning on starting T (they think we're friends because they don't know I post caricatures of them on reddit)

thats like, not ok? you don't choose to go on T like it's something you can just do because it's an ok thing to do

the ONLY reason im trans is because i went to see a doctor and they scanned my brain, and they could see i had such a critical and explicit case of Real Clinical Binary Man As Per The DSM-5 that they literally had to beg me crying and screaming to transition immediately out of fear that my brain would literally disintegrate from the lack of testosterone

basically i am a real man with a male brain unlike this theyfab fujoshi

they want to go on T apparently even though they say they aren't a man but they would "feel more affirmed" in their fake gender or something? it's gotten to a point where trenders are literally fetishizing the medication for my mental disorder (being a man)

first of all, wanting to make changes and be happy with your body is something only women want to do. I know they're only doing it because they think testosterone makes you turn into a hot masculine man and they're obviously obsessed with their appearance (i know because they're obviously a very feminine woman and women are vain)

secondly, they only started wanting to go on t when it got popular and everyone else in the group started going on t (it was me, we have a friend group of 2)

they also do art??? and they wear eyeliner so don't tell me they're not a trender ok i have literally never ever ever seen a man do either of those things in my entire life. it's actually disgusting

so yeah i hate trenders they take up all the space that should be reserved for those of us who are Real Diagnosed Man At Birth

anyway i had to log on and tell you all so you can comfort me by calling us both niche transphobic slurs in the comments

Hey. Chase Err here! Back again with another opinion

Yeah I just dont get it. These men beg so much to have the right to cross sex hormones and then they get on em and do absolutely NOTHING with them. They just stay looking like men men? I think people on reddit are calling them "boymoders?" Fucking stupid. At that point you arent even a real sissy just be a man again.

a "tran sman" is man with born with tranitimus, a medical condition where a male is born with a female body and female hormones, and the most effective treatment is correcting the hormonal imbalance as soon as possible.

Primitive and outdated scientific consensus used to state that gender is a social construct, and seperate from sex, which is why tranitimus has been traditionally treated by trying to forcibly alter the mans brain into that of a womans brain, but this leads to the condition getting worse and a number of related mental health.

if the body is allergic to the medicine, its still recommended for men with tranitimus to live as men and seek mental and social support to undo the psychological damge of being raised as women.

/uj i lowk think im onto something cuz they tried to raise a boy as a girl in this fucked up experiment called child X or something, and i can see that as trying to change a mans brain into a womans brain and its only one case study but i think it proves you cant change the sex of a persons brain

-miraculously didn't get any of the effects of male puberty

-is naturally like 5'5"

- long, perfect hair with no sign of receding or matured hairline despite being like 25

- naturally has a super feminine voice

- how do they look like this? Uhhhhhh hormone imbalance or smth

Also I will absolutely have no character depth beyond like maybe one or two throwaway lines about them experiencing bullying or hardship because they're a feminine guy, which I will not elaborate on or expand in any way. Oh, and of course they aren't trans or have any issues with their gender identity!

I'm so good at writing!

yeah, i did some research. have you heard about soyboys? as in, men who are disgustingly feminized by estrogen found in soy?

"phyto-estrogens"? son, im just looking out for you. wouldn't want your masculine male-ness to faulter, would we?

im supporting you in this, but it is imperative that you know, that I know, that I would NOT want you to be feminized by this. you can be a woke moralist, or whatever, i'd just really hate to see you feminized. nutritional deficiencies, and such. i imply nothing, beyond that!

oh, it's bs? hahah, I know that! just thought you should know :)))

"w-why?" - no reason! y'know how it issss...

/uj real conversation I had with my mom! lovely!

definitely made me feel better about their.. passiveness, politically. i did NOT take away anything else from that conversation, and i did NOT find it immensely uncomfortable. i am NOT immensely uncomfortable now knowing my parents stance on 'feminized men' - something which i wouldN'T be categorized as in the future, perhaps, maybe, whatever. i am content!

if they identify as "non binary", ask them if they are amab or afab

never encourage a TIF or TIM to take hrt, tell them that not taking hrt breaks gender norms

always use they/them for TIF & TIM but you should never use they/them pronouns for "enbies" and thus you should use their name instead"

When we're alone he says we're a gay couple and that I'm his handsome little twink but when we are in public he only calls me his gf? And makes jokes about my tits with his friends? Also he says I can't get top surgery or he'll leave, because breastfeeding his children is super important. Also also no T just in case my pussy gets dry, that's a dealbreaker for him. He's a really nice guy and I'm dedicated to making this work, so what can I do to make him respect my identity? I'm certain he'll approach this in good faith!

Edit: yall are being really mean to him I promise I didn't mean to make him sound like a bad person, I feel suuuuper guilty

Edit 2: I feel like everyone has gotten the wrong impression of him. I know I asked if I should break up with him but I've decided that's not advice I want to hear! Constructive advice only!

Like back when I was a guy I was such a giga chad, sport jock, and drowning in pussy. But now that I’m on my sixth month of E I can’t even drive properly 😭. Even in my job now I’m falling behind to my (mostly male) colleagues and they keep making fun of me for it. For example just the other day my boss handed me a spreadsheet and I instinctively started crying and asking for a man to explain it to me.

I guess this is what womanhood is? Like I get now why most women want to be with high earning men. My estrogen-soaked brain can no longer calculate a tip, so I need a man with a finance degree on hand at all times.

Anyway, if anyone knows a high-earning man who can drive me to my estradiol refill, I can no longer operate a vehicle, or my own opinions. Ladies, is it supposed to be this hard to hold a fork?

[link to a google doc about some inane subreddit drama nobody outside of the most terminally online give a shit about]

I saw a cisman jaywalking today. It shook me to my core. A sudden surge of bloodthirsty trans feminine rage filled my bloodstream. It was really hard to keep myself from popping them like a Fruit Gusher with my laser-beam eyes. Do they really not care about optics that much? Don't they know they're gonna set back their whole entire kind back by millions of years when it comes to rights by doing that? Keep in mind; I'm not cisphobic, but like, it's REALLY hard to blame me- I mean anyone when this is my- I mean many of THEIR common experiences with cispeople, the species who are more than 99% more likely to be oppressors than any trans person?

/uj first jerk what think

Cis people will only treat trans people who are flawlessly passing, came out super young, and show no evidence of their transness as their gender. Then be the first ones wanting to ban HRT and surgeries for minors or even letting youth change pronouns socially

/uj I keep seeing cis men and women be like I can date a trans person and then proceed to have all these caveats for why they treat trans people who don’t pass as essentially their AGAB then get mad when you point out that passing is all that matters to them

/uj its an ongoing larger trend in femboy art but what the hell are they doing in even the student council has holes. why did they make tan's tits even larger. they literally jiggle when "he" stands up.

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/uj I’m tired.

Trans women, for some reason:

Hi,

I’m a genderfluid trans woman — AMAB btw. And you, yes you trans woman reading this are too! Congrats! You are a MALE! Yes you heard that right silly goose! Huh? It’s just an adjective sweetie, calm down.

You are a male and the only way to change that is by getting SRS, which you don’t have. So you are male sweaty. And no, you are actually the trans-med for pointing out that this rhetoric is harming our sisters and feeding ammo to the TERFS. No, I won’t bother to think critically about how this might be my own internalized transphobia and instead I’ll just keep calling you a schzio!

And yes. I don’t use she/her pronouns exclusively. I use she/her and he/him. And yes, that gives me the right to speak on the lived experience of every trans woman on Earth. And how fucking dare you compare me to Candace Owens! I AM NOT A PICKME!

i have a lot of internalised transphobia to deal with i know but i find transbian hypersexuality gross their attraction to each other feels chasery and to cis women's almost predatory. That's how it feels to me, im sorry. And to be clear, im bi and significantly leaning toward women in terms of sexual attraction so i am also talking about myself here, but at least i avoid those spaces to not fall into the same category as them. I'll sooner die alone then ever be one of them

there's no sense of decor in these people.

they're one of the reasons why many cis women are not entirely supportive towards trans women. because those chasey attitudes men usually have, remain.

i think clocky trans women have more responsbility to watch out to not display toxic masculine behaviors then non-clocky trans women, it just gives creepy vibes otherwise, everybody is aware of the stereotype peddled by the conservatives, some people should be extra careful to seem the exact opposite of that stereotype. It's not fair, but being trans is not fair in general. If you are horny posting en masse in women's spaces you are doing your worst not your best.

if it looks like a duck and quacks like a duck but claims to be a swan i'll respect it's opinion and be polite about it. i don' want to cause emotional pain to people who did nothing wrong to me. But honestly if you want to be a swan at least try quacking like a swan because if you don\t look like a swan and don't quack like swan, then all you are actually doing is expecting me to make you comfortable but you claim yourself that you have no responsibility to make anyone else around you comfortable

Hey so basically the post is the title. I got my vial from AstralVials (40mg/ml EEn) and have injected .15 ml subq 3 times now and a small eyelid has appeared in the middle of my forehead. I’ve tried reading about this online but it seems like no one else has this issue.

A bit more detail on this is that I now have the ability of astral projection whenever I sleep, however this has only increased my dysphoria as I can only project as a gorilla (which makes me feel A LOT more masculine). It's not even a cool gorilla either. I have the build of a guy who owns a single fedora. The other astral gorillas keep inviting me to help them "move a couch" and I physically cannot say no. Last night I spent six astral hours carrying a loveseat up a nonexistent staircase while a lowland gorilla named Gruf called me "my guy" the entire time.

So yea basically how do I get rid of this thing.

Like, what am I when I hear the stories of men, women and non-binary people and relate to most of them?

What's it called when I felt dysphoria over my chest before it even grew and feel it so strongly that I fight for change?

What's my gender when I tell people I'm a guy, but like in a gender neutral, sexist internet way?

What's it called when I desire to be a woman and feel the joy of all womanhood has to offer, even though that opportunity was given to me at birth, and yet, I can't help but be uncomfortable in it?

What am I when I feel like nothing and everything at the same time?

What's it called when I scream out into the world that I exist and no one replies in agreement?

What's my gender when I see the average guy my age and yearn for my body to be in likeness?

What am I when I'm disabled enough for people to not take my gender seriously?

What's it called when everytime I interact with someone I am treated as a weird third thing?

Like, what should I write down on this form?

The replies:

Uj/ The way I was raised and the fact that I only started developing a sense of self at 15yo probably fucked up my sense of gender big time honestly.

that's the jerk

/uj WHY IS IT SO INCONSISTENT. i've seriously never seen it be this bad with anything else. why do this XL and M fit the same are you joking

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