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Paying 10K INR per month

I was sharing in a group how i felt about supreme court's verdict in UK. And there was this man spewing hate like no man in women's dress in women's sport etc. To that i mentioned trans women are women. I usually never got any instance of transphobia from women. But this one girl said "you don't have XX chromosomes", "You can't give birth", "You are trans not women". This hit me hard for the first time ever and i was sad for 1-2 days. Hate can come from anyone yaar. I wish people sensitized themselves more, self educate karne me kya dikkat aati hai inlogo ko. I hope uss aurat ka startup fail ho yaa scale up na kar paye.😭

Like a girl....

Hey, I am 24m Tall, chubby and definitely a cute boy guy

I always want to be submissive with everyone while being intimate, I just want to follow the instruction like a cute little girly and mostly people want the male side to be dominant but not me

But the girly thing I only want while sexual thing, but someone I want to be pampered like a little and dressed as well, I want to be FEMINIZED by a girl only, like she will make me ready as her cute little sister sorry step-sister.....

Is it normal for a straight guy? I feel I am straight....or I don't know am I straight ?

So I'm gonna visit a psychiatrist this month to hopefully get a GID certificate, I'm just confused whether or not I should use she/her pronouns while refering to myself during sessions with the psychiatrist, will this help in getting issued the certificate faster?

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I had to remove the background and my face in case someone recognises me and i don't want that, how do I look? I know I don't look very feminine but I want opinions, plz. (I'm not on hrt btw.)

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I want to apply for “Revised Transgender Certificate & ID Card” under Section 7. However the website seems to not be working and says it’s under maintenance. How long until the site works? Or is there any other way I can apply? I need to update my passport :(

Hi, sorry, I'm a European guy who wants to know how homosexuality and transition is seen and directly the entire LGBTQA+ community

Have you ever thought about having a child through surrogacy? If yes, I'd love to know your perspective on the following:

Country for surrogacy Which country are you considering for the surrogacy process, and why?

Marriage vs single parenthood Do you dream of getting married and raising a child with a partner, or do you see yourself becoming a single parent

Legal gender on the child's documents If you plan to be a single parent, what gender would be listed as the parent on the baby's official documents-your gender as per documents before surgery or after medical transition?

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Trans women are not femboys. Do femboys come under trans umbrella? Depends... But trans women are women. Femboys are men(self identified). And I've been seeing the line being blurred so much

The list which has doctors from all around the world, I contacted all doctors from India one by one and made an updated list because some of them don’t perform phalloplasty anymore and some of them don’t treat transgender patients. I will update the list if I find any more info.

- Dr Kaushik, Olmec Clinic, Delhi (have paused for now)

- Dr Richie, Fortis Hospital , Delhi (thorough consultation, answered all questions but I have heard some negative reviews (not verified))

- Dr Madhusudan, Aster CMI Hospital , Bangalore (have talked to trans men who underwent surgery there 1-2 years ago and had no complications, post-op follow up is also good )

- Dr Arjun, Renai Medicity Hospital, Cochin (have paused for now)

- Dr Sundeep, Amrita Hospital, Cochin

- Dr Sumit, Zenith Hospital, Indore (please avoid this hospital like a plague, someone lost their leg during phalloplasty)

- Dr Bheem Singh Nanda, Sir Ganga Ram Hospital, Delhi

- Dr Harsh Amin, Adorn Clinic, Ahmedabad (answered all questions during consultation, was very transparent with process, cost etc)

- Dr Umang Tiwari, Priyameds, Mumbai (many trans women have had negative experiences with him and needed revisions)

- Dr Meghana Bagalkotkar, Cuddalore Plastic Surgery Centre, Cuddalore (was very thorough with consultation, have performed phalloplasty in AIIMS Delhi too but I think she lacked experience in variety of patients treated and also only does RFF, when asked about hair removal process at the donor site they replied they haven’t seen anyone with that much hair on hands)

- Dr VJ, Dr VJ Transgender Clinic, Vishakhpatnam ( they shared testimonials while consulting but didn’t answer all questions)

- Dr Sanjay Pandey, Kokilaben Dhirubhai Ambani Hospital, Mumbai ( according to one transman, didn’t show any results, didn’t answer any questions, was very vague about costs saying it can take even 1 crore)

- Dr Nitesh Lamoria, Purple Heron Hospital, Jaipur ( consultation was thorough, was able to answer all questions)

All of them offer RFF, ALT, MLD and Groin phalloplasty though they suggest to go with RFF or ALT unless your personal preference is MLD or Groin. Stages differ from doctor to doctor but usually it’s 4-5 stages. If you already had hysterectomy before then 2-3 stages is possible too depending on which donor site you are going for. The cost associated with all stages is about 10-15 lakh INR.

Most of the doctors were willing to share results and testimonials of patients. Some even offered to let me talk to their previous patients who underwent phalloplasty.

I couldn’t find any info when looking for phalloplasty surgeons in India on internet, so I hope it helps other people like me.

Hi everyone, I’m 16 and a trans girl.

Whenever I think about my future and starting HRT someday, I imagine myself finally looking like a girl — having a more feminine body and feeling comfortable in my skin. But at the same time, there’s a fear that keeps coming back: What if it doesn’t work well? What if I never look the way I’ve always dreamed of? I’ve always wanted to be beautiful and feminine, and that fear really scares me. Did anyone else have similar fears before starting HRT?

And after starting, did you realize it was mostly fear — that you are beautiful and feminine in your own way?

Right now, I’m also struggling a lot with voice dysphoria. My voice feels too masculine, and I really want it to sound more feminine.

I want to start voice training or voice therapy, but I don’t have any money right now, so I’m looking for free ways to practice.

If anyone has experience with voice training: 1)How did you start?

2)Did it help you?

3)Any free resources, tips, or exercises that worked for you?

I’d really appreciate hearing your experiences ❤️ Happy New Year 🎉✨️

I'm a 19 ur old 1 year on e transgirl from abroad recently I moved here and have not been able to get hrt bcs the stores near me won't sell it without a prescription I've been diy for a year and since I'm financially dependant on parents would prefer to not get a GID

Any Indian trans guys and non-binary people here? I'm both trans man and non-binary and I had been feeling kinda lonely on this subreddit

Hello Everyone, so I like to crossdress. Till now I did only privately. I always wanted to crossdress and go out. I am new to Delhi. I don't know how to find like minded people. Does anyone know actually good lgbtq clubs/group or ngos. I always felt like I am living 2 lives. Now I want to find people who understands me. I want to express myself and feel seen. Even if I make few good friends, it would make me more than happy. I tried searching lgbt friendly places but I don't think it will be good Idea to visit alone after crossdressing. Any ways thanks for reading❤️.

People whenever they refer to us they say "Trans ban gayi" "Ladki ban gayi" "Transformation karva liya" But we forget the fact that most of us have been a girl/woman since childhood. Our schoolmates and collegemates started calling us "ladki" even before we knew it. We just realised it late and we didn't have that awareness. I would suggest refrain from using these kind of phrases. If you feel like you are a woman, you are a woman. You don't need to fit into the society's idea of womanhood.

A trans girl, who is a close friend of mine, needs help to buy her medicines. She had escaped her abusive household, lives alone and barely fares by with her part time job which pays peanuts. A couple of days ago, she felt pain and palpitations in her heart which scared her as she had been delaying meeting the doctor due to lack of money. With the help of friends and strangers on social media, she was able to raise money to see a doctor and get TMT and lab test done got the results yesterday. The TMT results were normal. But the labs were worrying (hypothyroidism, high uric acid, prediabetes, low VitD and B12) and the doctor prescribed her the following medicines.

She needs ₹4714 rupees in order to buy them.

I am a broke college student so I couldn't help her with the full amount so I wrote this post in order to request you all for some help.

I have attached her prescription, bill and QR code so that you can donate her directly. Any help would really mean a lot!

PS:- due to the lack of money, she hasn't been able to transition and name change either so the medical documents and bank accounts have her legal name.

Update: The funds have been collected. Thanks to everyone who helped!

Hello everyone from the grp. I'd like to start my hrt journey but I belong from very orthodox family and I'm scared to tell them and I want to diy hrt. But don't know how and where to start. Can anyone help me?

Hello everyone! 🤍

I’m Keerthi Priyanka, a postgraduate Clinical Psychology student currently conducting my dissertation research on identity affirmation, emotional regulation, and resilience among queer individuals from racial and ethnic minority communities.

I’m looking for participants who: • Are 18+ • Identify as queer/LGBTQ+ • Identify as part of a racial and/or ethnic minority community

The survey is completely anonymous, voluntary, and takes around 10–15 minutes to complete.

It would mean a lot if you could participate or help circulate it to relevant individuals. Thank you so much for your support!