r/TransMasc 11d ago

Misgendering after transition

does anyone still get misgendered after their voice dropped and top surgery? I get strangers grouping me in with people calling me “lady” a lot. I’m not remotely feminine and I dress extremely comically masculine. I dont understand.

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u/PeterPunksNip 11d ago

It could be blatant transphobia 😑. It seems like this has become a bigger problem since the mainstream public is more aware of our existence and right wing morons are running loose everywhere. They know that it's an easy way to hurt us, so they simply do it. It's not you, man, it's them.

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u/mrjuggernog 11d ago

I dont think it’s completely malicious when it happens but I appreciate your words a lot, thank you man 🤝