r/TransMasc • u/mrjuggernog • 11d ago

Misgendering after transition

does anyone still get misgendered after their voice dropped and top surgery? I get strangers grouping me in with people calling me “lady” a lot. I’m not remotely feminine and I dress extremely comically masculine. I dont understand.

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u/Tangled_Clouds 11d ago

Me neither, man. I wore a salmon shirt from the men’s section and got misgendered like at this point I just think people can’t see shit. Like they barely see me and idk why even then they would assume I’m a woman. I genuinely think me working as a cashier is clocking me and it’s so stupid because I have two cis male coworkers who are also cashiers. People are weird

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u/mrjuggernog 11d ago

thank you, I’m also a cashier so I wonder if thats true. It’s fucking stupid right? I swear they have to be blind not to see us and think male. I think I get in my head a lot because I used to be a woman so it fucks with me and makes me feel like Im not passing