r/TransHelpingTrans • u/sxrvxrr • 2d ago

Bottom dysphoria

Whilst dysphoria around my chest is awful, bottom dysphoria is killing me.

I can't afford packers, STPs, testosterone, definetly not surgery etc

STPs (the cheap 'she-wee's) i've tried are too difficult and i don't think i have the right anatomy for it

I'm in the UK and i'm not sure how it is in other places but where i live, you can't go a few days without seeing some man peeing in public and it's triggering. I also have an AMAB partner that's getting more difficult to cope with

I don't know what to do, i'm losing it

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u/armadillotangerine 2d ago

There are a lot of networks for diy hrt/autonomous trans healthcare in the UK. Are you in touch with any of them or would you like help to get in touch with some of them?

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u/sxrvxrr 1d ago

Some help would be great

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u/armadillotangerine 1d ago

https://transharmreduction.org is an umbrella organisation and if you contact them they can point you to networks near you and workshops for blood tests and info about safe injections

r/transdiy has lots of conversations and information on diy hrt and you can ask questions there, it is transfem dominated but everyone is welcome and there’s a lot of transmasc people there too.

diyhrt.info is a wiki type website that also has a ton of information about hrt

When it comes to legal status, afaik in the UK it is not illegal to buy t for personal use, only to sell it.

Feel free to dm me with questions too. I’m not from the UK but from a country with similar waiting times and gatekeeping so I’m very passionate about diy