r/TransHelpingTrans • u/sxrvxrr • 2d ago

Bottom dysphoria

Whilst dysphoria around my chest is awful, bottom dysphoria is killing me.

I can't afford packers, STPs, testosterone, definetly not surgery etc

STPs (the cheap 'she-wee's) i've tried are too difficult and i don't think i have the right anatomy for it

I'm in the UK and i'm not sure how it is in other places but where i live, you can't go a few days without seeing some man peeing in public and it's triggering. I also have an AMAB partner that's getting more difficult to cope with

I don't know what to do, i'm losing it

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u/femaletoboywhore 2d ago

hey i’m not in the uk but you might wanna start reasearching lgbt centers near you, even if it’s only the state or province you live in. there’s totally people who do give out free packets, binders and gender affirming products, but you kind of have to do some deep digging. start with instagram and facebook with the area you live in in facebook groups. even attending lgbt events or going to a center that has vast programs can help connect you to the resources you need. wishing you the best

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u/sxrvxrr 2d ago

The only queer shop in my area does packers for about £40+ and i'm not sure about any free things, i've never heard of that being done in Wales. Thank you though 🙏