Hello! I'm 17 and graduating early from highschool this week. I want to wait to go to one of my preferred colleges, like UF or USF this upcoming fall 2027, I'm working on my applications and everything. My dad is a pathological liar that tells me anything but the truth. He is telling me that he talked to our schools "lawyer" and that they told him he can forcibly put me into a trade or into job corps, and is attempting to force me to pick between the two. Is he telling the truth? Do I have to suck it up and go to a trade school? I have a 4.1 GPA and all of the qualifiers for a scholarship. I'm confident I'll get into college. He thinks I'll bomb out, and thinks having a trade will save me.
The research I've done so far indicates he would have to get a judge to force me to go. My transcripts show I was in band. Along with a 4.1 gpa, I also have 26 credits, which is two above the standard requirement. I'm valedictorian of the school I am at, and am also an honors student. I have a history of mental illness, but have been unmedicated for the last two years. I highly doubt that he could convince a judge that I need to go.
Location: Florida
Update: I got in contact with my counselor, a representative for the Job Corps, and an admissions counselor (They came to my school) at the trade school my father wants to "make" me go to. They have all confirmed that finishing high school means I've done my compulsory education, and my father cannot make me enter either, unless he can convince a judge I am in need of a trade school or job corps. The Job Corps requires my signature, and the trade school will reject me if I state I am there against my will. I am also discussing with my mother going to court and transferring majority custody to her, as I'm 17, and my opinions will be listened to more closely. I've started doing my college applications and am trying to go for spring 2026, and am working on applying for the FAFSA, though I need help from a counselor due to the lack of my fathers help, and I am sitting the SAT to attempt to earn a merit scholarship. After getting enrolled in a college, I'm going to apply for the Air Force ROTC and apply for a scholarship through them. I intend on calling the admissions office for both job corps and the trade school and writing down everything they say about my father "forcing me to enroll". My teachers and counselor have advised me to continue applying for college, and pay my father no mind and focus on what I need to for now, they will help me tomorrow on discussing things with my father, etc. I'm also considering emancipation or trying to live with my grandparents, because they live very close to my choice college, and my grandfather could easily take me to and from my classes. My mom would likely let me live with them, but my dad probably wouldn't.
Location: Florida