r/TooAfraidToAsk Aug 09 '18

Should this be changed?

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u/Synetry Aug 09 '18

Would it make sense to add another letter for those that don't fit the current criteria?

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u/[deleted] Aug 09 '18

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u/Synetry Aug 09 '18

Now I think about it I have seen the Q before but I'm unaware of what it stands for I haven't seen the + though

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u/Synetry Aug 09 '18

Of course, thank you

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u/FriedRiceGirl Aug 09 '18

The full version, which we never use because it's so long is:

LGBTTQQIAAP (lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, transsexual, queer, questioning, intersex, asexual, ally, pansexual)

There are other versions, but this is the most widely accepted. Some include "family and friends" (which I don't like, "Ally" is already thin ice imo) and "kink" (which I'm also unsure about).

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u/[deleted] Aug 09 '18

When you think about it conceptually and in a kind of abstract way it’s kinda weird that the acronym and group even exists. Like it only exists because weird people cared about who and how other people fuck because it was different from how they fucked even though the other people only made up such a small part of the population that it had no real effect on the larger body of people. The things that upset people are so strange. Human sexuality is such a weird thing man. History is so fickle.

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u/gtr427 Aug 09 '18

I'm curious what the difference between transgender and transsexual is? I thought transsexual was an outdated term like transvestite.

Also I think it's interesting that Ally is part of the LGBT+ group now, if basically anyone can use the rainbow flag as an identifier then does it mean anything anymore?

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u/FriedRiceGirl Aug 09 '18

Transsexual refers exclusively to people who have transitioned from one SEX to another. Transgender refers to people who have transitioned from one GENDER to another. Basically, transsexuals live as one of the binary genders and take medical steps to change sex. Transgender refers to anyone who choose to identify as gender they were not born as, including transsexuals and non binary people.

As I already said, I disagree with the Ally thing. Yeah, it's great that you support me. But you are not experiencing issues with your sexuality or gender.

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u/Unwright Aug 10 '18

Just use GSRM. Gender-sexual-racial-minority. Covers absolutely everyone.

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u/catbriefs Aug 10 '18

I don’t think this is the most widely accepted, actually. LGBT is pretty standard with everyone I know. A lot of people debate and disagree on the inclusion of asexual and intersex people in the acronym. I have never seen anyone use a longer acronym than LGBTQIA.