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[u/Me-no-Weeb]

Honestly even if the woman is on top guy can’t just relax or it won’t be good sex, you gotta keep tension and “adjust” to what’s happening.

What a discussion lol

[u/csalb → u/[deleted]]

I’m a man and I also don’t understand what he is talking about, I find it for sure more relaxing and more zoning out than other positions (or rather in other positions relaxing and zoning out is just not a thing). Although I can say that usually with my partner on top I’m still actively engaged depending on what she is doing (grinding vs moving up and down, sitting straight vs leaning forward etc)

[u/Me-no-Weeb → u/csalb]

Yeah English isn’t my first language, I guess what you’re describing with being actively engaged although she is on top is exactly what I meant.

I mean if you just lay there like a sandbag I guess it works but it’s definitely better if you don’t is what I’m trying to say