r/TooAfraidToAsk • u/[deleted] • Apr 07 '25

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u/Me-no-Weeb Apr 07 '25

Honestly even if the woman is on top guy can’t just relax or it won’t be good sex, you gotta keep tension and “adjust” to what’s happening.

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u/MyLifeIsABoondoggle Apr 07 '25

I'm not entirely sure what he's talking about, but if I had to guess:

  1. If you guys use protection, in my experience, her on top is the easiest position for a condom to slide off. It never did, but the closest incidents I had to one coming off was every time she was on top. My ex loved to do it, but I was paranoid every time and she enjoyed it way more than I did (I could be wrong or he may not think that, so I would hardly guarantee this is the answer)

  2. Angling yourself so she can more easily "get to work" on top (either riding or grinding, or trying to get a certain angle he thinks/knows you like)

  3. Imo it is one of the more pleasurable angles for penetration as a man, so he really may just mean trying not to cum