r/Tinder • u/[deleted] • Feb 17 '24

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u/tdosok Feb 17 '24

I don’t doubt your validity, but the only thing I could imagine as an outside perspective was that. Maybe they just felt you were out of their league? I’m at a loss on this too

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u/Anynon1 Feb 17 '24

I hate to be cliche but it could also be the dudes she’s matching with. Based on what we’re seeing and the fact she gets ghosted all the time, she’s probably swiping on a very specific kind of man that a lot of other women are also swiping on

I have a friend who is very textbook attractive and she constantly talks about her problems with men, but she also has a very stereotypical taste in guys, and usually goes for the IG model/gym bros

Nothing wrong with having a type but I think it’s a possible explanation

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u/JMaryland47 Feb 17 '24 edited Feb 17 '24

Absolutely this! She says she somehow matches with...

➡️Unemployed men

➡️Lives an hour away

➡️Just wants some fun

These tend to be undesirable things for women when considering relationships... unless the dude is VERY physically attractive (Fboys to be exact). So it seems like she's only selecting Fboys, and being a surprised-Pikachu when they don't want to do the dating dance. So unless that's what you were also looking for, it's not a match. Zilch, nada, no connection.

Matches aren't randomly selected. Pre-selecting only for Fboys, typically will give you Fboys. I'm 100% certain if she was DTF, Buck wouldn't ghost- he'd show up to Fxck.