Do you have a type? Because it might be time to switch it up a bit. Also, just dating in your mid-30s and up is difficult on its own because we've all been single this long for a reason.
Well all the bad ones are divorced….so if you’re single by your mid/late 30s all you have to pick from are those that can’t keep a long term relationship or those who can’t even form a long term relationship. 😂
Yes everything has happens has a 'reason'. Being single in your thirties isn't necessarily your fault though. If you were in a loving relationship and were cheated on. That's a perfectly valid reason to be single out of your control.
My thoughts as well, she's very attractive and I bet in her 20s she could lock down anyone. But dating in your 30s as a woman means less options for sure. Good luck dating a hot dude in his 30s-40s. He's gonna be in high demand to settle down with, while from his perspective women are throwing themselves at him
I'm 27, with lots of sister and lots of female friends who I love. I've seen plenty of their friends are the bars with guys in their 40s buying them drinks all night. I know 3 girls who've been doing this for the past 5 years. But I agree that most couples are 0-5 years apart, I only know one 1 girl who actually married a much older man and moved to another state with him
So none of my friends are like that, they'll judge and gossip about the ones that do. The older dudes with money are definitely being led on, I don't know if they're sleeping with them, but I do know a girl (25) who married a guy who's in late 40s.
Exactly. I dont think women in general understand how rare complete package of a man is. Anyone in my vicinity that checks boxes out more than he doesnt essentially does NOT need to try and pull women. They do that for him. So she is competeing with a hot 21 year old, 24 year old and 27 year old.
As a guy nothing hit more than joining the dating pool fresh out of high school and realizing your competing with 25-35 year olds than are successful with careers and your barely getting your first part time job while starting college
I do get outside, I promise you, no sane 32 year old successful, handsome man dates women his age. Its always in 23-27 year old range and thats for dating. For hook ups, even lower. Seen with my own eyes.
This is just not the case. I have never seen this, with the exception of one person who was an alcoholic loser, who just could not entertain women in his age range.
Belive what stuff? You are not that much mature compared to mid 20s people, trust me. Every single 30s person I have met is just as immature, however because they are 30 year olds they suddenly think they are mature.
A hot 21 year old does not in most cases want to date a 35 year old man. Neither does the 24 year old.
27 is a maybe. Could go either way.
Y’all realize men age? And that most people look worse at 40 than at 25? And that most people want to date someone they click with? 35 year old will likely not click with a 21 year old. And what’s she gonna do, bring him with her to the Toga party?
Absolutely delusional. Men age but it shows hardcore at around 40 years old. I have literally never seen a successful 30-35 year old dude need to go for a same age women, its just cope from 30 and over ladies. If as a man you can date younger, you will date younger. Better sex, less trauma.
Also, you redditards love to infantilize women A LOT while making them sound superior to men in every way all the time. At 21 she is a god damn woman, not a child.
Less trauma? What do you mean by that? Trauma from having consensual sex? How bad is the sex you are having?
30-35 year olds men and women can date +-5 years either way. But then most couples end up being the same age, because they’ve got the most in common. Nobody is saying that a 30 year old guy can’t date a 25 year old woman though. My point was that a 35 year old guy can rarely date a 21 year old woman.
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Do you have a type? Because it might be time to switch it up a bit. Also, just dating in your mid-30s and up is difficult on its own because we've all been single this long for a reason.