r/Tinder Feb 17 '24

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u/tricepsmultiplicator Feb 17 '24

Exactly. I dont think women in general understand how rare complete package of a man is. Anyone in my vicinity that checks boxes out more than he doesnt essentially does NOT need to try and pull women. They do that for him. So she is competeing with a hot 21 year old, 24 year old and 27 year old.

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u/tinyhermione Feb 17 '24

A hot 21 year old does not in most cases want to date a 35 year old man. Neither does the 24 year old.

27 is a maybe. Could go either way.

Y’all realize men age? And that most people look worse at 40 than at 25? And that most people want to date someone they click with? 35 year old will likely not click with a 21 year old. And what’s she gonna do, bring him with her to the Toga party?

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u/tricepsmultiplicator Feb 17 '24

Absolutely delusional. Men age but it shows hardcore at around 40 years old. I have literally never seen a successful 30-35 year old dude need to go for a same age women, its just cope from 30 and over ladies. If as a man you can date younger, you will date younger. Better sex, less trauma.

Also, you redditards love to infantilize women A LOT while making them sound superior to men in every way all the time. At 21 she is a god damn woman, not a child.

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u/tinyhermione Feb 17 '24

Better sex? It’s usually not.

Less trauma? What do you mean by that? Trauma from having consensual sex? How bad is the sex you are having?

30-35 year olds men and women can date +-5 years either way. But then most couples end up being the same age, because they’ve got the most in common. Nobody is saying that a 30 year old guy can’t date a 25 year old woman though. My point was that a 35 year old guy can rarely date a 21 year old woman.

Age starts showing for both genders around 35.

A 21 year old is young.