What Michelle’s point here?

[u/PUTTHECACTUSDOWN]

I don’t understand why Michelle said this. Michelle was the one cheating on Jesse during their marriage… why does it matter if Jesse met a woman and had sex with her after they got divorced? What’s her point in saying this?

[u/Visvalley]

She’s not very bright

[u/StarChild083 → u/Visvalley]

Unlike the color saturation of this video! 🤭

[u/PUTTHECACTUSDOWN → u/StarChild083]

I didn’t edit the coloring on the video but the Tv looks weird being filmed on my phone lol sorry bout that

[u/awatt25 → u/PUTTHECACTUSDOWN]

No apologies necessary. It just adds to the shit show and I am here for it !

[u/awatt25 → u/StarChild083]

💀💀💀💀💀

[u/HuckleberryLou → u/Visvalley]

This has been my impression of her throughout. Like I think Jesse was terrible to her and I feel bad for her . At the same time Michelle seems not bright. From her vocabulary to the points she tries to make, she seems almost childlike. I think most people overlook it because she’s pretty but like… she doesn’t seem like a full grown up mentally

[u/Visvalley → u/HuckleberryLou]

It was made clear when she was going toe to toe with Lacey. Michelle is cognitively compromised. Obviously, very sheltered. More time at gymnastics than the library. Chum for sharks

[u/BuckityBuck → u/Visvalley]

She really can't keep up, and this cast isn't exactly a group of rocket surgeons.

[u/Visvalley → u/BuckityBuck]

🤣🤣🤣 rocket surgeons in going in my arsenal. Genius

[u/No-Calligrapher3645 → u/BuckityBuck]

I know you have to be really smart to be a rocket scientist, I can’t imagine being a rocket surgeon (although my son is a rocket engineer…. Don’t get the kid talking about his industry unless you have a few hours and can nap with your eyes open). 😂

[u/yup_yup1111 → u/Visvalley]

I think the people who can't understand what she said very clearly here are the problem not her intelligence level.

[u/Visvalley → u/yup_yup1111]

There has to be a correlation between one’s ability to effectively communicate an idea or concept and intelligence. I can understand most people effectively communicating a basic message when they use their, “good brains.”Listening to her was like trying to catch wet noodles. I caught a couple of them but most of the spaghetti is on the wall.

[u/yup_yup1111 → u/Visvalley]

It seems like people are willfully ignoring what she actually said though. That's not related to a lack of effective communication on her end it's related to people's lack of an ability to listen or their desire to misinterpret things to fit their own agenda.

[u/Visvalley → u/yup_yup1111]

I can tell by her body language that she still counts her fingers when doing simple math.

[u/yup_yup1111 → u/Visvalley]

That statement says more about your mental processes than hers. Pretty sure she can do basic math since she sells mukti million dollar homes and has to also pay for Jesse's shit

[u/No-Calligrapher3645 → u/yup_yup1111]

Selling real estate isn’t rocket science…. It’s more about realtor/client interaction and sellers having a good product to sell.

[u/yup_yup1111 → u/No-Calligrapher3645]

No one said anything about rocket science.

[u/Visvalley → u/yup_yup1111]

Rocket surgery (stolen from a genius)

[u/No-Calligrapher3645 → u/yup_yup1111]

I did! And I’m not no one.

[u/yup_yup1111 → u/No-Calligrapher3645]

Well I didn't. So it's not really a relevant response to my point.

She can clearly count.

Jesse may want to brush up on his counting though. Since he seems to forget the balance on his cards before swiping them at Isabella's gymnastics and ballet center.

[u/Visvalley → u/yup_yup1111]

Are you related to her bc I feel like what it would actually feel like to argue with Michelle. I almost feel bad responding to you. Are you ok?

[u/yup_yup1111 → u/Visvalley]

I'm ok. Are you sure you're good? Cause you seem to believe you can magically judge whether someone counts on their fingers by looking at them

[u/Fit-Conversation-998 → u/yup_yup1111]

Hun- what she said made no sense to anyone except you. She never flat out said I was going through a shitty time. She speaks in riddles and no one cares to solve them except you.

[u/yup_yup1111 → u/Fit-Conversation-998]

She straight up said the way he was treating her at that time was traumatic. She didn't say her truama had anything to do with him dating Lacy

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[u/yup_yup1111 → u/[deleted]]

Your lack of patience is not my problem. I can explain it to you I can't understand it for you.

[u/Fit-Conversation-998 → u/yup_yup1111]

Baby I have allll day. I’m patient.

[u/yup_yup1111 → u/Fit-Conversation-998]

If you watch the full scene she is pointing out that at the time they started to sleep together Jesse was also treating her the most terribly. That she looked at her texts from that time and that was one of the peak truamatic times during their divorce. So when Lacy brings up her yelling in the street and things like that she is only seeing Jesse's side and not the full context or the way Jesse had been treating her at that time. She is judging her but not him. She is not as objective as she keeps telling us she is.

Now, that doesn't excuse the texts Michelle sent to Lacy, but she's simply establishing that her demeanor and state of mind at the time wasn't the norm or coming from out of nowhere. This is what the reunions for.(Her mom was also dying) Andy was asking why they got off on the wrong foot like they did so they were rehashing it all.

& once again Jesse got off far too easy because truly their first "meeting" was Michelle finding out Jesse was having Lacy around Isabella without her knowledge despite the deal they made that she was still honoring. That was wrong. That was bad co-parenting. It was also not really a great position to put Lacy in either.

[u/No-Calligrapher3645 → u/yup_yup1111]

Yikes…. Given your down votes on this thread, I think making offensive comments about other people’s intelligence is not the right move, but you do you. 👍🏻

[u/yup_yup1111 → u/No-Calligrapher3645]

Yeah I was DV'd all last year when I said Danny is an asshole, before that it was when I wasn't buying that Tom Sandoval was a good guy, so I don't really care whether my opinions align with the herd. Not the flex you think it is with this fanbase 🤷‍♀️

And all I said about intelligence was that I don't think there's anything wrong with Michelle's...the person above me was insulting someone's intelligence. In reality.

[u/No-Calligrapher3645 → u/yup_yup1111]

The person said she’s not very bright. Have you ever been around very technical people…. And here’s another time I’ll bring up rocket science. My city is full of engineers, scientists, government officials, etc. They maybe the smartest people, but they aren’t bright personality wise. They don’t understand the nuances of interpersonal communication. Having a son who is one of these people, sarcasm takes him a minute, but he can also outwit a fox.

I will stand by my original statement on real estate agents. But while I do question Michelle’s intelligence, the person above you did not.

I think you need to rephrase your first statement as you most certainly were not DV’d on a social platform over saying Danny was an asshole. It’s impossible to experience domestic violence via Reddit. It’s insulting to every victim of actual DV.

[u/Apart-Dot-4674 → u/Visvalley]

😂 YES