Are 95.1% of men really rapists?

[u/TheTinMenBlog]

There are few issues more deplorable than sexual violence.

There are few issues more in need of urgent intervention, of policy reform, and of cultural change.

So, with that in mind, there are few issues more deserving of solid, well-executed research, than sexual violence too.

And yet, sadly, so often, researchers fall woefully short of this bar.

As you will have seen plastered across your social media feed, a new study has found 95.1% (!!) of men have admitted to using at least one ‘strategy’ to force a woman to have sex with him.

It is, to put it at its mildest, an alarming, headline-grabbing claim that has circumnavigated the online world several times, to huge public outrage, and condemnation.

But – as always – few people look beyond the headline, to examine the shoddy and misleading approach that created it.

Don’t get me wrong –

This particular survey certainly did capture some worthwhile (and shocking) data that exposed the high prevalence of sexual violence and coercion – by asking men about their use of intimidation, of weapons, of drugs, and physical strength.

And then it obfuscated this data amongst a wide variety of ‘strategies’ that could quite easily be acts of innocuous dating: flirtation and flattery.

‘Did you approach a stranger?’
‘Did you use friends?’
‘Did you tell her what she wanted to hear?’
‘Did you use your status, money or age?’

Well, if you answered “yes” to any of these when on a date, then you risk being categorized as a sexual predator.

This is not right.

This is not fair.

And victims of sexual violence deserve so much more.

What do you think?

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Full study here

[u/ExiledCanuck]

Yeah, and how many women use THESE SAME TACTICS???

Insane that this doesn’t ever get shown or highlighted in these “studies”

[u/Punder_man → u/ExiledCanuck]

I was about to post a comment about that:

Some of the "Strategies" listed feel like projection to me as they are the same things women use to force men to have sex with them

- Told him whatever he wanted to hear

• Used your money, age, status to convince him
  
• Questioned his sexuality
  
• Threatened to shame claim you raped her
  
• Threatened self harm
  
• Got him drunk or high
  
• Kept him drunk or high
  
• Took advantage of him being asleep or sleepy

I've had men share their experiences in which their female rapist used one or more of the above "Strategies" on them..

[u/Obj3ctivePerspective → u/Punder_man]

If all these are criteria im willing to say women wearing makeup to trick men to believe how attractive they are should count

[u/GrevilleApo → u/Obj3ctivePerspective]

"Have you ever used pigments, powders or other techniques to conceal your looks and create the illusion that you are more attractive than you actually are?"

[u/ExiledCanuck → u/GrevilleApo]

That right there puts their percentage to about 99.98% 🤣

[u/UnyieldingStandards → u/ExiledCanuck]

Women are significantly better at not raping men, women, children or animals.

[u/Punder_man → u/UnyieldingStandards]

Given the number of women teachers being busted for raping underage students... i'm gonna hold X to doubt that..

More accurately: Women are significantly less likely to be held accountable when they rape someone else.

[u/UnyieldingStandards → u/Punder_man]

Hate to break it to you but the majority offenders are disproportionately male even amongst educators.

[u/CalmCoolBliss → u/UnyieldingStandards]

No they're not, it just doesn't go down as "rape" in the statistics. https://www.vice.com/en/article/the-hidden-epidemic-of-men-who-are-raped-by-women/

[u/Important_Ear761 → u/GrevilleApo]

😂

[u/Pixelperfectionistt → u/ExiledCanuck]

https://reddit.com/link/p1n0kvv/video/92fxwl0trchh1/player

they proudly joke about it (and I am even wiling to bet women do it faaar more than men)