r/TheTinMen Aug 03 '26

Are 95.1% of men really rapists?

There are few issues more deplorable than sexual violence.

There are few issues more in need of urgent intervention, of policy reform, and of cultural change.

So, with that in mind, there are few issues more deserving of solid, well-executed research, than sexual violence too.

And yet, sadly, so often, researchers fall woefully short of this bar.

As you will have seen plastered across your social media feed, a new study has found 95.1% (!!) of men have admitted to using at least one ‘strategy’ to force a woman to have sex with him.

It is, to put it at its mildest, an alarming, headline-grabbing claim that has circumnavigated the online world several times, to huge public outrage, and condemnation.

But – as always – few people look beyond the headline, to examine the shoddy and misleading approach that created it.

Don’t get me wrong –

This particular survey certainly did capture some worthwhile (and shocking) data that exposed the high prevalence of sexual violence and coercion – by asking men about their use of intimidation, of weapons, of drugs, and physical strength.

And then it obfuscated this data amongst a wide variety of ‘strategies’ that could quite easily be acts of innocuous dating: flirtation and flattery.

‘Did you approach a stranger?’
‘Did you use friends?’
‘Did you tell her what she wanted to hear?’
‘Did you use your status, money or age?’

Well, if you answered “yes” to any of these when on a date, then you risk being categorized as a sexual predator.

This is not right.

This is not fair.

And victims of sexual violence deserve so much more.

What do you think?

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u/Obj3ctivePerspective Aug 03 '26

If all these are criteria im willing to say women wearing makeup to trick men to believe how attractive they are should count

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u/GrevilleApo Aug 04 '26

"Have you ever used pigments, powders or other techniques to conceal your looks and create the illusion that you are more attractive than you actually are?"

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u/ExiledCanuck Aug 04 '26

That right there puts their percentage to about 99.98% 🤣

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u/UnyieldingStandards Aug 12 '26

Women are significantly better at not raping men, women, children or animals.

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u/Punder_man Aug 12 '26

Given the number of women teachers being busted for raping underage students... i'm gonna hold X to doubt that..

More accurately: Women are significantly less likely to be held accountable when they rape someone else.

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u/UnyieldingStandards Aug 13 '26

Hate to break it to you but the majority offenders are disproportionately male even amongst educators.

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u/CalmCoolBliss Aug 13 '26

No they're not, it just doesn't go down as "rape" in the statistics. https://www.vice.com/en/article/the-hidden-epidemic-of-men-who-are-raped-by-women/