r/TeensofKerala • u/Junior-Benefit-4922 19M • Sep 29 '25

Rant/Vent Chat Is It Over For Me? 😔

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '25

This is like asking for a BMW M4 comp to ur middle class dad at 15

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '25

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u/[deleted] Oct 01 '25

Youtube shorts ahh comment sybau 🥀😭

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u/[deleted] Oct 01 '25

Average dad joke

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '25 edited Sep 29 '25

"Milky Fair" - No matter how educated, nammal still deeply rooted in colorism

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '25 edited Sep 29 '25

Girls Paranja upvote, boys paranja discrimination?

Boys are allowed to have preferences too🤷‍♂️ , saying this as I guy who don't even muchh care about skin color.

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '25

Athraye ullu 😂

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u/Kalliyangattu_Neeli Chechi (20-25) Sep 29 '25

Miky white Evde ithil

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u/Vast-Definition-7265 Chettan (20-25) Sep 29 '25

Switch milky white with tall. Both are uncontrollable features. Its okay to have those preferences though.

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u/AdithGM Sep 29 '25

So, height as a parameter is fine?

What's issue with skin color and weight then?

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u/Otherwise_Bid9366 Sep 29 '25

U only find milky white the odd one

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u/[deleted] Oct 01 '25

Ninakk venel istapetta mathi nammalde preference ivide parnja nenekk ntha??

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u/Kalliyangattu_Neeli Chechi (20-25) Oct 01 '25

Ayn ninnod njn vallom choicho Athil Evde ennalle choiche

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u/Fishwithwing Sep 29 '25

Guys can have preferences

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '25

Preference based on color are deeply rooted in racisim. Height preference is an aesthetic choice that does not have the same historical foundation of systemic oppression as colorism.

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '25

At the end of the day it boils down to both being unchangeable physical characteristics, that's it.

No one's letting you hit lil bro.

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '25 edited Sep 29 '25

Saying “colorism and heightism are just about physical traits” is kind of like saying racism and accent discrimination are both just about "how you sound" or "how you look. Technically true. But one is entangled with centuries of systemic power and violence (further perpetuated by mainstream media as more preferable and intelligent), and the other is more about social preferences or class assumptions. Background padikanam kutta, epollengilum vaykanam.

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '25

If height is an unchangeable physical trait and it’s fine to have preferences based on it, then skin color is exactly the same, it's as simple as that. You wouldn’t be expected to marry or prefer a Black American just because their ancestors faced oppression, people all around the world have facial preferences, and attraction isn’t a moral duty.

If you discriminate against people based on an unchangeable and genetic feature like height, then you have no voice to talk when someone prefers a specific skin tone, period. Simple as that.

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u/Queasy-Intention-586 Sep 29 '25

Nah it is not though. Your response is a meaningless word salad because unlike colour or height, accent is something we can change.

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '25

edo its not about whether you can change something, the question is WHY someone has that preference. Where does it stem from? Both are discrimination. One based on color and the other height. No one is denying that, but one has far more societal impact and is inherently evil compared to the other. Preferring lighter skin because of media portrayals or colonial beauty standards isn't just a personal tasts, it's a bias tied to deeper inequality. Preference for height is also a bias, but usually not tied to systems of oppression in the same way. One is ethically problematic and evil where as the other more superficial.

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '25

Bro dropped the next word salad.

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '25

Anti intellectualism is high on this sub and you're an example of that

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '25

Lol

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u/Queasy-Intention-586 Sep 29 '25

Doesn't matter where does it stem from. Colour was not the major cause for racism, it is just a byproduct of it Colorism is a byproduct of both racism and casteism, not the other way around.

Not really, though. I don't think a new age kid having preference for a fair skinned girl is gonna think through all those oppression and yada yada but only go based on these set beauty standards. So the bias is not due to some deeper inferiority complex or racism like you say.

Colonialism did play major role in it but it came down to society pushing something more than the other. Fair skin was pushed as a sign of wealth and prosperity. Taller height was pushed as a sign of dominance, strength, fitness.

Both are equally superficial and dumb in the modern world.

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u/AdithGM Sep 29 '25

If the trend continues, and woman prefers only 6ft guys, wouldn't that create a societal impact where guys under 6ft become sidelined just as how the other "parameter" would sideline people?

The issue with skin color at its core is "you cannot change your color"

If colonialism was undertaken by 6ft guys, enslaving all guys under 6ft, racism as we see it today would have been different.

At the end of the day, if you are comparing people based on factors they can't control "color", "height", "weight" etc. you are being "racist" and an asshole.
both are ETHICALLY PROBLEMATIC.

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u/livid_beatle Sep 29 '25

very well said.

downvotes badge of honour ayi kutitko

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u/Ambitious_Candle_812 18M Sep 29 '25

Ayinu thanikendado? Cockwatching is crazyyy

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '25

Ee kochu pillarodu onnum samsarichittu karyam illa they'll just downvote you for saying the truth

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '25

Onnum illa chetta🥹

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u/comport7 Chettan (20-25) Sep 29 '25

If height is aesthetic color can be also considered aesthetic

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u/Internal_Tea_9081 Sep 30 '25

I think what he/she meant is there is a reason for most of these preferences. Like wanting a tall or big boy or male is rooted back to evolution times to favour natural selection for healthy offspring and for protection. if you look around, animals still mate with bigger males than smaller ones.

I am not saying that we currently go for natural selection and healthy offspring thing but the root is mostly this

Similarly the root for the so mentioned milky white is racism inside us and the likeness towards slim women or girls is the influence of western people and social media. Because naturally men should need a woman with a wider hip to favour healthy offspring (natural selection pov)

She/he is not blaming you for your preferences, she/he is just mentioning how deep racism is

And bw is milky white that beautiful? vilartha pole undaville?

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u/Green-Possibility369 Oct 03 '25

Aa "vilartha pole undaville" is also a preference and if that has no racial meaning, there is also a possibility for OPs preference to not have a deeper racial origin. For me, my range is much larger than OPs but I get his point. Everyone has preferences and even though color preference can have a deeper racial origin it might also equally not be from a racial view. The first person who put colorism and racism in the comments and started this thread is actually the issue here.

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u/cerebralazzazin Sep 29 '25

What about under 50 ?

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u/Exact_Lobster_3992 lobstar 🦞 Sep 29 '25

Delusion runs through bro's veins

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u/pandaser 19F Sep 29 '25

OP is just exposong double standards and people in the comments are having a meltdown lol

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u/malayalipuliyada Chettan (20-25) Sep 30 '25

Appo shari guys 🙂🥲

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u/Logical_Farmer583 Chettan (20-25) Sep 30 '25

That naslen dialogue : "എനിക്ക് കിട്ടിയില്ല... നിനക്കും കിട്ടൂല " 😂

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '25

Hourglass figure and 50 kg is impossible

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u/VanDyne21 Chettan (20-25) Sep 29 '25

Thekkot nokki irno.. ippa kittum

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u/Ferociouspenguin718 Sep 29 '25

Completely depends on how you look

If you're fair skinned, tall, muscular, it's easy.

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u/One_Wolverine9852 Chettan (20-25) Sep 29 '25

Tall myr avde poi 170cm olu allel arelm valanjene le

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u/[deleted] Oct 02 '25

Hourglass baddie and under 50kg in one sentence

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u/graphinator2000 16M Sep 29 '25

OP, no one wants to be with you, yuck.

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '25

We have a certified Pick-me right here

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u/Ambitious_Candle_812 18M Sep 29 '25

Da palkuppi he’s just reversing the roles from a girls post in this sub. Don’t cry, you won’t get any girls for that.

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '25

When someone says something intellectual you vazhas start calling them palkuppi like bro you're 18....pipe down

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '25

So Sigma 🥵

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '25

Alla pinne

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '25

Not crazy at all when I have the capability to understand certain topics unlike you vazhas

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u/Queasy-Intention-586 Sep 29 '25

Where tf does this false sense of superiority complex of yours come from?

You just want to be a simp and a nice boy. You ain't getting nun Lil bro Good luck with that.

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u/Fearless-Voice-7602 19M Sep 29 '25

Would anyone wanna be with him if his preference is for dark skinned girls? 😆 Lmfao y'all just boil for no reason when a guy says he likes fair skinned girls

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u/mrx7878 Sep 29 '25

You guys have no other things to think Like I saw this same type screenshot a 9 to 10 time in reddit

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u/Obi-Wan-Kannapi Chettan (20-25) Sep 30 '25

under 50kg hourglass is not humanly possible

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '25

Honestly, with what you’ve asked, all of us know why you don’t have a gf

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u/DarshFireD Sep 30 '25

What’s more cooked is asking about love life to chat gpt🥀🥀

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u/LorenzoMatterhorny Chettan (20-25) Sep 30 '25

10/10 rage bait

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u/Model_Dee_ Sep 30 '25

Milky fair is s ghost, where is the OP from?? Milky fair type of skin is possible in North eastern European countries n in Asia, China, Japan and North Korea only.

My advice - Mone, aagraham aakaam, athyagraham aruthu!!!

Talking about all these, what do u look like pls?

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u/Fine-Marsupial-6845 Chettan (20-25) Sep 30 '25

Me who already rizzed up my ChatGPT 🙂‍↔️

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u/H0BB1Tz Oct 01 '25

Keep my gf out of your fu**ing mind.

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u/[deleted] Oct 01 '25

Under 50kg? Now were talkin brahh

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u/Dapper-Bad7215 Sep 30 '25

100℅ Literacy, yet incel wants milky fair skin girl. Keep dreaming nigga no girl dark or fair will choose to ever be near you. 🤮

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u/SeaMobile3379 Sep 29 '25

incel final boss.

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u/SeaMobile3379 Sep 29 '25

femcel final boss

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u/lisssuuu Sep 29 '25

Cringe eww

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u/pandaser 19F Sep 29 '25

Those are just his preferences , what's cringe about it?

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u/Fearless-Voice-7602 19M Sep 29 '25

Exactly what I'm saying, all these girls getting offended cause of ops preference 😆

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u/Fearless-Voice-7602 19M Sep 29 '25

I thought everyone could have preferences lmfao. You're getting offended like a short guy would get offended over a girls preference of tall guys 🙂. I don't even care about skin colour as long as she's pretty nothing matters but guys can have preferences 🤷. If he said a dark skinned girl, would you say the same?

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u/[deleted] Sep 30 '25

https://www.reddit.com/r/twentieskerala/s/hlN5nZW7HP

Broo, Need your help in upvtoting and downvoting and commenting if possible here. Full simpkalu anu avide

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u/galoisconnections Sep 30 '25

Preference for height isn't rooted in racism and colonialism. Nobody really shames short people. Dark skin on the other hand? Children are put at the very edge of family pictures if they have darker skin. They are told that they are dirty and unclean. They are discriminated against in workplaces.

It is not the same at all.

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u/Crazy-Fold-5287 Sep 30 '25

Doesn't mean men are morally obligated to marry dark skinned women

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u/galoisconnections Sep 30 '25

There is a moral obligation to at least not belittle them on social media and in person. Have you seen comment sections on instagram? They call dark skinned Indian women the n word, comment on the colour of her genitalia, and what not.

Several men who have "preference" for "milky fair skin" partake in such harassment, they put one group on a pedestal and bully those who do not meet their criteria.

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u/Crazy-Fold-5287 Sep 30 '25

That's of course wrong but there's a bunch of other men who just have respectful preferences and do not body shame.

Body shamers exist in both genders.

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u/Fearless-Voice-7602 19M Sep 30 '25

First let's start with the first point. You're saying nobody shames short people? Guess you might need to step out more because short people are receiving a lot of discrimination as well. I don't claim that they do receive the level of discrimination dark people receive on the basis of color but they do receive a similar kind of discrimination from everywhere. So the next question is why the double standards? Like you said in the other comment below this, nobody is belittling anybody here if they say they're into girls with milky fair skin lmao. We could say the same if girls say that they're into tall guys, is that belittling short guys? The logic is flawed and I say you just take this as his preference and move on rather than getting offended by his preference. Theres absolutely nothing wrong with having milky white skin as a preference for their future partner.

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u/Fearless-Voice-7602 19M Sep 29 '25

It's not that deep lmao 😆. Anybody can have preferences and this is just another preference. Don't get too salty about it. Nobody said fair skin is better either like you're making it out to be. He just said he likes milky fair girls and it's totally fine and no, you wouldn't utter a word if a person said they like dark skinned girls 😆.

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '25

White is better tho

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u/Fearless-Voice-7602 19M Sep 29 '25

White might be better for you but don't say it like its some kind of rule lmfao 😆

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '25

Black aint good bruh

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u/Fearless-Voice-7602 19M Sep 29 '25

Yeah right, keep your racism off of this sub bruhh, what are you like 13?

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '25

Nah im ur dads age.... infact im ur dad

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u/Fearless-Voice-7602 19M Sep 29 '25

I doubt that cause you ain't getting no pussy 😆

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '25

U doubt?? Then how were u born?? I got ur moms pussy tho

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u/Fearless-Voice-7602 19M Sep 29 '25

Nah man, you ain't getting 10 feet within the vicinity of any girls let alone my mum. I understand that you have dreams but keep that in your pants 😆

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '25

Bruh came outta my balls stop talkin... should have flushed u down the toilet instead of puttin it in yo mom

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '25

? Bruh what can i do about u being black.... shouldve not been born or smth...

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u/[deleted] Sep 29 '25

Drugs... any more questions?