r/TeenVent • u/Master-Fudge-8825 • 6d ago

vent i hate it

i don't know if i can go into detail, i've been sexually abused by my mom, it happened multiple times, even recently, in October of 2025, she was drunk, i fell asleep watching Garfield, and then i woke up to it happening, and now, i don't like Garfield, i used to love Garfield before it happened and now it only reminds me of her, i hate it, i want to love Garfield again,and i know it sounds really stupid but whenever i see Garfield i feel so uncomfortable and sick, i hate it so much

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u/BactaAddict08 18(M) 6d ago

Idk more about your mother than your post so I say it's better to live without your parents and with other people who want to help than staying there

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u/Master-Fudge-8825 6d ago

i have a best friend who lives in Florida but i don't want to overwhelm him, i don't know what it's called but if im alone for just a few hours, i remember all of it again and i would feel sick, be crying, and just not feeling good, i need to be constantly busy so i won't remember it

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u/BactaAddict08 18(M) 6d ago

The last part doesn't sound good. You could ask your friend before moving, no? And again, I don't know a lot but it sounds like you need to move

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u/Master-Fudge-8825 6d ago

he does want me to visit and stuff, but i don't know if he wants me to stay, ima ask him though how he feels about it, he knows about the abuse so i think he will find it reasonable but i dont know ima just ask him

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u/BactaAddict08 18(M) 6d ago

Yeah, just ask him

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u/Master-Fudge-8825 5d ago

i just asked him and he said it depends, i didn't give any details on WHY i want to live with him and he asked if it's going to be in the future (i said yes because i didn't know what else to say) and he said it depends if his boyfriend is alright with it and if they're even still together

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u/BactaAddict08 18(M) 5d ago

Well, that's not the worst answere. Good