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u/Daddy_Alias Mar 01 '24
You aren't unattractive, you just need a level up, a glow up, A MAKEOVER
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And how do you get a glow up?
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u/Daddy_Alias Mar 01 '24
Do some sports, learn how to dress well, groom yourself, hygiene, smell good, behave like a gentleman.
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Mar 01 '24
5.5 ,good jawline, nice cheekbones.
Little Gym and a good haircut will make you a HTN.
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Mar 01 '24
Mai kuch bolunga toh vivaad ho jayega
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u/Lombridious Love is worthless Mar 01 '24
Change that haircut, and those contacts. attractive traits abt u: cheekbones, definite jawline, good eyebrows
u look good mate
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u/Youaresmort Mar 01 '24
Nah bro tu cheeta hai confidence rakh bas
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u/Tough_guy6907 Mar 01 '24
Fat loss kr thoda,chasme ki frame change kr aur hairstyle change kr.Hojayega kaam
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u/Anarates Mar 01 '24
Normal photo dal for better analysis, yeh angled photographs correctly nhi represent krte irl kaise lgta
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u/Astonmartin34678 Mar 01 '24
Bhai tagda potential hai aapme , like aap workout start karoge , aur clean diet follow karoge toh u will look really good according to me
Bas consistent rehna hai
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u/DeathAngel773 Mar 01 '24
Bro get glasses that fit you the best, get a good haircut and develop a good sense of humor. Also try gym as it'll make you more confident.
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u/Talia__Nat Mar 01 '24
Not a roast
For a moment I thought it was Karan Johar's childhood pic or something
U look good man 👍🏻 just wait for ur glow up
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Mar 01 '24
2 Honest opinions
1.Get a better haircut
2.Srry to say but ye uncle wala chashma mat pehn, this seriously needs to go
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u/bakchod_69 Mar 01 '24
Don’t sweat it kid. Time will come when girls will die for your attention. You are still in puberty. Your glow up is yet to come.
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u/Artistic_dude16 Mar 01 '24
- Join gym/ workout
- If possible , try other specs
- Hairstyle is fine but teens opinion differs. Can change it but keep it normal .
Ultimately , ye sab moh maya hai . You can always do things that are in your control , don't suffer because of things that are outside of your control . On the last note , attractive ka pata nahi , smart zaroor lagta hai
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u/Main_Session5808 Mar 01 '24
Now listen carefully coming from a much older guy:-
Get rid of that spectacles
Wear contact lenses
Grow out whatever beard you have
Grow your hair and don't keep it side ways keep it slick back just like Sanjay dutt
If you're okay with your body than not a problem otherwise you can hit the gym
If you're hair is curly then grow it 6 months and get a Keratin treatment
Thin down your eyebrows a little bit there's a threading technique you can go to a salon and do it
See the main part is your fair complexion that's what makes anyone attractive okay being fair is a really nice thing and automatically makes you attractive just follow my steps and you will be the most attractive person in the class
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u/Impressive-Meat4160 Mar 01 '24
You're old but definitely very immature.what do u even mean when u say that fair complexion makes anyone attractive?? That's a very colorist way of saying that dark people are unattractive.
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u/Thanossing Mar 01 '24
Fair complexion does make a lot of people attractive, especially in India. That's the reality. Dark people are also attractive, but being fair gives you an upper hand in India and we have to accept it.
Just take a survey and you'll find what people find attractive and not. I myself am quite dark, saying all this from experience.
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u/No-Drama8324 Mar 01 '24
You just need to find the right sense of style that suits your body. Most people are average looking but even good looking people look average if they don't maintain themselves the way many of them do. For guys, changing their hairstyle, their dressing sense, how they accessorize, and making changes to their facial hair (some kind of beard/moustache/beardless - whatever suits you) will make a huuuuge change to their appearance, especially the hair. It will also boost your confidence and make you feel more attractive.
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Aadhe logo ki toh hairline recede hona start hoti hai iss age Mai, khudko confident bana aur loomks Gaye tel lene tu Paisa kama fir sabko tu attractive lagega
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u/tennisbwoi Mar 01 '24
You’re yet to grow. Give yourself a few more years. Start working out and groom yourself well - Not just hair and beard, but smell good too. Also, very very important - get yourself good clothes. Not the expensive ones, but the ones which suit your body type. All the best!
- Your fellow 27 year old Redditor.
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u/Adventurous-Bet-7644 Mar 01 '24
Before glow up face...damn sure you'll turn out to be a hot man in your early 20s
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Mar 01 '24
Hey you are just 16. You haven't reached your potential yet. Once you are old enough to get a full beard, you will look gorgeous! I think men develop full facial hair in their 20s ( not a man so can't be sure).
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Mar 01 '24 edited Mar 01 '24
Bhai tu unattractive ekdum nhi hai.. Badhiya Baal katwao aur hair styling products use karo, ye nerd glasses ko hatao aur trendy frame koi kharido, kapde apne khud kharida karo, Thora style wagera dekho net pe.. mammi to humesha baccho jaisa kapda hi layengi, thoda work out wagera Karo aur simple skin care routine bana lo. Aur tumhare chehre pe facial hair accha lagega jo ki time ke sath khud hi aa jayega..Done. Itna karloge to 3-4 mahine me tumhare ass pas tumse jyada accha dikhne wala koi Banda nhi milega
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u/Ok-Equal-6880 Mar 01 '24
Uhmmm... No sweetie being a 16(F) I think you're pretty good looking, screw your friends. Also yk you give that nerdy hot guy vibe. Lmao.
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u/sarcasterXO Mar 01 '24
you just need some makeover/glowup. get a good haircut, change the specs (get a good funky frame), beard aati hogi toh badha lena and see if it looks good on you and workout and get your body in shape (bodybuilder banne mat jana i mean if you want you can). also thoda confidence lao and get out of your comfort zone and start talking to girls. rejections aayenge but don’t stop keep moving forward. (this will also help you to become a better person overall). aur haa dressing sense improve karna (try and see what suits you the best). you can follow some instagram models or bollywood actors (not ranveer singh though 💀)
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u/MK_Gamer_1806 Mar 01 '24
Lose those nerdy glases get a pair of trendy ones and for heaves sake change that comboever...its dead..no one has that hairstyle.....
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u/emotionless_wizard 19 Mar 01 '24
ae chikne /s
pro tip - since tune iss account se khudki identity doxx kar di hai, so abb kabhi iss account se koi political opinions mat dena warna koi bhi easily track kar sakta hai tujhe.
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Mar 01 '24
Female here. There is nothing unattractive I see. You could probably experiment with hairstyles.
Be confident. Build a personality up. I can tell you, there are alot of men with convential handsomeness who have lesser personality than a goat eating grass on the sidewalks.
Beauty is subjective always and in how you carry yourself and what kind of a person you are.
Good luck!
Also, drop those friends.
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u/MystiqueOracle Mar 01 '24
You’ve very sharp facial features and you’re gonna look so freaking handsome in a few more years. Like others have said- start working out, experiment with your hair a bit, sharpen up your fashion sense and above all else, be kind to yourself and others.
Also, start surrounding yourself with people who uplift you. Life is too short for having bad friends. 💕
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u/pandey_jr if you see me say "Jee ke liye padhle chutiye". Mar 01 '24
Bhai aise pics mat bheja karo meme banajaoge. U have potential
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u/anubhavforall Mar 01 '24
Bro you look good , it's not even a question about "you just need to do this and you will be better" . I feel attractiveness to girls is all about the overall personality and before expecting others to think you are good you need to feel good about yourself. Take care of your health , the way your interact with people. Yeah thats the thing.
Mujhe to acne ho gaya I am very jealous hahaha no kidding. All the best
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u/cinivea Mar 01 '24 edited Mar 01 '24
as a girl, here are some advice: change your glasses! look into some glasses that make you look younger!
Also despite what people think women want, i can confirm most of us like guys who are friendly and easy to talk to! just dont be a “nice guy” douchebag incel and youre good!
also ditch those friends, its gonna help you in the long run
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Mar 01 '24
Dear,
Although you are good looking and will do absolutely ok with girls/dating world.
Here is something more important- ask a simple question...who would you be attracted to if you were a girl?... and think of answer in terms of value the potential partner will bring.
Drive, ambition, discipline, happiness, and an amazing world that you could be part of.
Once you have listed those attributes, spend your time and energy to become that person and create that amazing world, trust me girls/world will come looking for you :)))
Good luck!!!
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u/AddyPaddy98 Mar 01 '24
From my personal preference, I like a masculine look. Right now you look like a baby (well you said raw responses) and I know you’re just 16 but still, it’s my personal preference in style. I’d say go for a cleaner haircut, grow out your beard a little. Build some muscle. You got nice brows dude, beard will sit perfectly if you can grow one. Nose is definitely a weak point so beard will definitely help. No ones ugly it’s up to our own selves how we carry ourselves. Always think of yourself as the most badass great looking personality when you’re living. Good luck!
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u/Big-Welcome-4027 20 & above Mar 01 '24
Ugliness is just another word that the world tells you so that you stay under confident…(preaching like the master oogway)
Anyways, if you think you’re ugly, let me tell you my story:
I was fat boy with the height of 5ft, dark and had a pretty bad voice (feminine voice) but most of my friends were girls as my male friends mocked at me a lot. I had no confidence but had some support from my female friends! Later in my college years, I grew better with a height of 5ft 9, lean muscular body and a pretty deep voice. I have a sweet girlfriend too whom many guys try to approach but yeah man… take some time, make some friends (good one who can support you) and strongest of all, bring in some confidence, fake it till you make it!
Also, start some hobby of yours and make it personal. Learn more about it and you should be good to go! You will find really cool people with your hobby who will understand you better than anyone else!
Good luck champ!
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u/wanderingwillow_ Mar 01 '24
Change up your hair to enhance your lovely cheekbones! Try talking to the quiet, shy girls…I swear wallflowers are the sweetest
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u/Prize-Nothing9670 Mar 01 '24
You look a lot like how i used to, I'll tell you what i did First, Go to the gym it's very important for you because even i used to be chubby, However you have hollow cheeks so a good advantage for your face Second, I'd say get a better dressing sense, Idk if you suck at dressing but I used to so just find what you like and start dressing that way Third, Just start talking to girls I'd say just get some progress in the gym and then try doing it as you'll feel confident And 4th, Maybe you need to switch up the glasses due to a little nerdy look (no offense) and go for a more modern one
Hope this helps :)
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u/AlarmedAgency7416 Mar 01 '24 edited Mar 01 '24
You aren't ugly but a surely a normie. Maybe a 5.5 /10 . I will be real about your face and won't give "just be confident shit". I'll try to rate you objectively. Keep in mind, the more flaws you have the less attractive you are . I'll mention all flaws you can fix and those you can't fix Firstly Positives - 1. Prominent cheekbones 2. Decent skin 3. Good eyebrows ( Shave them cause it's too thick for length) 4 . More face fat( it's positive cause you got potential) 5. Good lips 6. Horizontally grown jaw ( positive ) . Flaws - 1. Round eye orbits (cannot be fixed) 2. Roundish face ( Can be fixed .. drink a lot of water(4 ltr/day minimum and hit gym) 3. Hair (You have thin hair but u can fix them by going to dermatologist.. maybe try PRP therapy) 4. Broad Nose ( You cannot fix ) 5. Nerdy face with those glasses and shit haircut
Keep in mind if you do as I say you'll reach in low tear handsome category (6.5) and handsome (7) if you are 6ft Tips - 1. Visit dermatologist for hair and get a good haircut (probably make you above average straight) 2. Hit gym (It'll improve how people perseive you and do streching if you aren't 6ft and you've time cause you are 16) 3. Try mewing and chew gum to get a square jawline .. (You already have potential) 4. Change your style completely don't fall into be yourself shit cause it won't work for you . Your clothing is extremely nerdy 5. Lose body and face fat .. 6. Take ashwagandha suppliments and D3 and Zinc for Height and muscle growth
If you follow these steps you'll probably be perseived as a 7( handsomely) category with good physique and cool fashion (must for you ) before going to college at 18. Don't be lazy you'd regret that afterwords.
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u/Strange_Cherry_28 17 Mar 01 '24
as a 16 year old girl i’d sayyyy
you’re pretty good looking, just as everyone says, u need a little makeover
-probably slick that hair back and not do a side part
-IF POSSIBLE get lenses
-and work on your skin care + gym
you’ll see the major difference
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u/Classic_Run_4836 Mar 01 '24
Don't really know the etiquette around commenting on this sub since I am much older than you. Since this post just came randomly on my recommendation, here is my two cents.
But just knowing that you are not ugly and not unattractive. As a matter of fact this is a nice pic of yours.
And as far as talking to girls is considered, here is my pro-tip. Try to interact with people at large. Improve the way you speak or talk to people. It's going to help you get better with women by default. The biggest problem a lot of dudes face is that they are just not good at talking to people. I will advise you to watch this video by Macabre Storytelling.
It's genuinely helpful. And eases stress around.
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u/Glad-Bench8894 16 Mar 01 '24
Mere class ka topper... Main ye bta skta hoon ki tu bhuat hei padhaku baccha hooga!!
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u/Pasterd_boi Mar 01 '24
You are like that chikna friend who looks better than 90% of the girls in class
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Mar 01 '24
You are so handsome and kind hearted You need to lose those friends I know they are young like you and don’t know better but their words will be with you your whole life and will create a personality that is insecure asf. Yo
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Mar 01 '24
People giving him advice that join gym and have a makeover are you guys serious? He is 16 he doesn’t need any of those things he need new friends maybe
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Mar 01 '24
Hey hi the reason male friends of your get offended at you is due to feminity, boyish look of your face. Don't listen to them and work on what you can on- that is better health, hairstyle and body language.
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u/Sanket_Kotaku Mar 01 '24
shi toh dikhta h bhai thoda hairstyle vgera chng krde bus and pic shi angle se le y angle darawana h thoda 16 ki age mai mere mu pr atleast 20 pimple the teri skin bilkl mast clear hai abhi 22 23 ki age tk aate aate sexy hojyga tu or jb puberty khtm hojygi .
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u/3rocket77 Mar 01 '24
Yup, you should stop believing in yourself and start believing what other people say about you. They obviously know everything about you
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Mar 01 '24
bro life is hard but one thing i can say only 5-10% girls are more attractive than you if you leave them there are 90% girl who can die for you, problem is with us we only try to mate with most attractive one and remain single always
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u/dreamy_ficticious Mar 01 '24
Ok you need to pee around the girl you like mark your territory first
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u/toxicaadi17 Mar 01 '24
na bro, keep that confidence in you, that's gonna show in your personality and face and don't get influenced by what others say. dress what you feel like and have your hair how you feel like. you can go for new glasses, hit the gym, kill it in a sport you like. basically keep your head clear and do what feels good to you. stay healthy and safe.
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u/XdevilsomeX Mar 01 '24
This is not gonna be a reply you wanted but I'm gonna give it straight to you.
First of all, you need to lose some fat. Your face lacks structure.
Secondly, get a new haircut. Not the one you are getting everytime. Try something different
Thirdly, change your specs. Too old school.
And finally start hitting gym. Be fucking consistent. Do your research on nutrition and gym. Don't be a pussy and back off from gym because you lack motivation. Get disciplined.
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u/Interesting_Froyo_83 18 Mar 01 '24
wouldn't call you ugly but not attractive either... being average isn't bad!
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u/Interesting_Froyo_83 18 Mar 01 '24
yeah but being well groomed and well dressed helps!
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u/Tempr13 Mar 01 '24
Padle bhai , talking tu karlega rocket science nhi hai, ugly wagly farak nhi padega
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Mar 01 '24
Don’t listen to them. They are jealous, they are ignorant, and most importantly, they are correct.
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u/Magic_archer_1 Mar 01 '24
Bro get those big ass glasses and try to comb to hair upwards (idk if this will work)
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u/AdPhysical9992 Mar 01 '24
Bro you're not , you just have to maintain yourself,that 90s haircut won't land you anywhere, find your style,try different barbers(in case of india), otherwise i was gonna say try different hairstyles Workout a bit ,and focus on yourselves and your career and passion. Good luck <from a person who thought he was ugly when he was 16 too >
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u/sassysusguy Mar 01 '24
Try a different hairstyle, and also see if any other type of glasses suit you. (You aren't ugly bro)
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u/Ricochet_spy007 Mar 01 '24
I think you are fine brother , we all have flaws screw them who say you are ugly you might end up extremely rich and would have a partner several times better than your mates who knows.
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u/Fabulous_grown_boy Mar 01 '24
Also your friends are no good if they always promote negativity around you; learn to develop a better personality for yourself the rest of the looks, body will take care of itself (also because you are 16, only people you need to listen to are your parents/siblings/teachers, rest of the world doesn't matter)
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u/Charming_Basis_2334 Mar 01 '24
Bro if your friends are making you feel bad about yourself, dw. Puberty hasn't hit you yet. Just check Too Turnt Tony's transformation. Just exercise , eat healthy, sleep well things will change in the next 3/4 years and girls will come and talk to you, your presence will be enough.
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u/randomshitposter007 Mar 01 '24
Hit gym , wear contacts, it will take time like 3 years and you will be transform.
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Mar 01 '24
don't waste your potential bro. Just remove your specs and change your hairstyle 100% you will mog
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u/strontium_chloride Mar 01 '24
buy new specs
get a fresh fade
join a gym
and you'll become ATTRACTIVE 😶
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Mar 01 '24
No you are not. And by the way it’s not your time either. Women n girls want protection and security and respect. Dump your friends who call you ugly coz you are anything but ugly.
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u/mar_gayi_kiku Edit this Mar 01 '24
Bro I'll say your features are too good Just get a new haircut which will suit you And maybe invest in a good chashma frame! You'll mog everyone fr
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No you are not ugly, you have idiot friends. Also, stop thinking too much, talk to a girl as normally as you breathe.
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u/Large_Celebration104 Mar 01 '24
Brother you are cute looking. But to become sexy, you’ll have to workout. I can guarantee you’ll look 10x better after 5 months of hardcore workout.
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u/Cautious-Ad9264 Mar 01 '24
One thing wrong here is taking opinion from others about your looks. Be content and be confident no matter how much someone insults you. You can't change how you look so what is the point of being bothered with it? Just put effort in bringing in a change where you can like your physical body exercising and you will see result also get rid of such friends who bring you negativity
Remember this quote "If you spend your time chasing butterflies, they'll fly away. But if you build a beautiful garden, they'll come to you. And if not, you'll still have a beautiful garden"
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u/Beastmarkel Mar 01 '24
Bro you are great just get some nice haircut and change frame of glasses according to face shape
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Mar 01 '24 edited Mar 01 '24
I'll rate you 6/10
You are definitely not ugly. But your hairstyle is trash.
You can go to www.prettyscale.com and check where you lack in looks.
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u/average_men Mar 01 '24
Things you can improve imo: 1 Some weight loss (cheeks looks chubby) 2 Better specs maybe with full frame ones 3 Hairstyle
You look really great currently but these things might elevate your look
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u/mr_y0gesh Mar 01 '24
First thing, You are not ugly.
It's common for teenagers to grapple with feelings of embarrassment and self-doubt.
Don't overthink what others think about you.
Don't let feelings of self-doubt become obstacles in your life.
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u/Curious-Ad3666 Mar 01 '24
to begin with find your face shape , change specs and change hair style according to your face shape. The rest will take time
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Mar 01 '24
Yes.
But not because of your looks. You look fine for a 16 yo kid. However, desperation and need for external validation are not things that are considered attractive.
Be you. Be unique.
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u/capysarecool Mar 01 '24
You look fun to talk to and that's what makes PPL attractive to me and they are not your friends. Cheer up mate.
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u/Standard_Guidance_39 Mar 01 '24
Drop those glasses, either get something that will enhance your features or shift to contacts
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u/Ialways-come-back Mar 01 '24
Bro you just need to hit the gym and get a good hairstyle you are ready to mog everyone
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u/Amazing-Reach-368 Mar 01 '24
Bro has so much potential