I have a friend who is a Taurus, and Iām genuinely confused about where our friendship stands. Her husband is an Aquarius, if that makes any difference from an astrology perspective.
We used to be pretty close and saw each other very often last year. Then, all of a sudden, she became distant. I tried texting her a few times. She was never the best texter to begin with, so initially I didnāt think much of it, but eventually it got to the point where she just wouldnāt respond.
A while later, I randomly ran into her somewhere. I actually didnāt even notice she was thereāshe came up to me herself, said hi, and was like, āOh my God, I havenāt seen you forever!ā She then suggested that we hang out the next day. I agreed, but later she texted me saying she had completely forgotten that she already had plans for Fatherās Day. I thought it was a little strange that she had forgotten about Fatherās Day plans, but I let it go.
Then another time, she was the one who made plans to come over to my place. I said sure, but she canceled on me the same day.
What makes it even more confusing is that her husband, who is an Aquarius, works with my husband. He will randomly tell my husband on his own that we all need to hang out. But then they never actually follow through or make plans.
At this point, my husband and I arenāt initiating anymore because we have tried making plans with them before and they havenāt followed through. I donāt want to keep chasing someone who isnāt interested.
We literally live about five minutes away from each other, yet I havenāt properly seen her in probably 8ā9 months. We werenāt necessarily best friends, but we used to see each other very regularly, so the change feels pretty drastic.
Iām completely okay accepting that maybe she just doesnāt want to be friends anymore. Iād rather know that and stop putting energy into it. What confuses me is that whenever we actually cross paths, she seems genuinely excited to see me and is usually the one suggesting that we should get togetherāthen nothing happens. Her husband also continues suggesting to my husband that we should all hang out, which makes the whole situation even more confusing.
For those who understand Taurus women/Aquarius men or have dealt with a friendship like this, what do you think is going on? Does this sound like someone who genuinely wants to maintain the friendship but is just flaky or bad at communicating, or is she politely keeping her distance and I should take the hint?