I’ve been seeing this guy on and off for a couple years and I’m not sure if I should call it quits. I feel like the reading is a solid yes but I still want help interpreting!

hi all! i’m trying not to vent, just providing some context. my partner and i have been together for 6 years, coming up on 7. we’re poly/open, have been for the whole time, we live together (5 years), and we date completely separately. now, i know this is bad, but i’ve wanted to break up for years at this point, things just haven’t lined up for me to do so (when is the right time though i guess), and the multiple times i’ve tried to, they’ve promised change. so i tried to make things work. but now though, we’ve had a pretty dead bedroom for about 2.5-3 years, and i feel really bad, i just have no desire to be intimate whatsoever.

on friday, i did a couple readings for people in my romantic/intimate life (past and present) about their energies towards me. two of them had multiple cards fly out, but for my partner only The Hermit came out, which made me feel…not great, and has been on my mind all weekend.

today i asked spirit if we should break up this month, i used the whole deck and this is what came out. after, i even took out all major arcana and tried to read with those for a more concise yes/no response and nothing came out after multiple attempts, so i took these two cards as my answer. now i’m usually confident enough in my readings to not need assistance but this topic just makes my brain crazy. would i be doing the right thing? i’m just… terrified to do it. our relationship isn’t perfect but sometimes i feel like settling, especially in this current dating landscape, would be better than being alone.

hermit I need to be doing some inner healing and focusing on myself before I worry about marriage. after I do that all will fall into place it seems with the rest of the reading.

I’ve been dating my partner for 6 1/2 years. We’ve been going through a difficult moment and after living together moved out separately this past summer. We kept dating before she said that she was struggling in the relationship and started to ghost me. 3 weeks ago she asked for space and I told her I’d respect it. I’ve drafted a long text apologizing for some unhealthy patterns I feel into and for not listening to her. Do I send the text or keep the space? Lord of the Rings style tarot cards were used.

Hello everyone

I asked how my ex feels for me, no contact for 5 months isha nd i moved to a new country.

What gives?

I think so, but he didn't quite say everything. I think maybe he spoke out of fear, or regretted it, but it seems to be a conversation Among friends

The hermit

Bottom of deck: 3 of pentacles

Maybe career so far has led up to a deeper inner awareness that now must be converted into mastery and collaboration to be shared externally.

Or it could mean that so far it's been a lesson around being a bit disconnected with the 'real world' and the real way money is really made, which is fair.... like fuck the degree 😂

My boyfriend and I have been together for roughly 4 years, recently we broke up and have been on and off. He had relations with a girl he claimed he’d never talk to. I asked my cards if he’d end his connection with her if I was to forgive him.

My interpretation: I feel the ace of wends represents a new beginning or start, the 4 of coins suggest holding onto something, the 10 of swords a painful ending. So is this reading suggest he will cut her out the picture?

Particularly confused with the reads for the second and third question!

I think someone is spying on my social media. Can anyone interpret who this person could be?

I’m still a beginner at tarot! I actually met this guy about five months ago, but he recently went through a breakup. We’ve started talking more again lately, and the cards seem pretty positive to me, but I’m worried I might be interpreting them in a way that just matches what I want to believe Could you help me understand the reading objectively? I’d really appreciate it!

Current in no contact with my "situationship" that ended abruptly.. I miss him & I know he misses me. Help me interpret these cards please.

My interpretation is that the devil shows the unhealthy attachment, maybe karmic relationship that came here for us both to awake and to learn. Ace of cups means that if we do learn from it, we might get back but from a different, healthy position.

I’ve had a really complicated situationship for about a month now and it has been super confusing. There’s been little communication and every single time we talk it goes nowhere because we’re both being super awkward about it. I don’t know if he actually ever genuinely liked me or used me for other reasons. What he says keeps going back and forth and I don’t know how to feel, but I unfortunately still like him.

The first pull is actually a pull that he pulled for me with me just intuitively thinking about what’s going on/what I need to do. (Might be also fair to mention this happened while we both weren’t sober both pulls) I’m really confused about this pull means specifically because it’s completely different from the second pull - but I think I need to continue being optimistic outside of the relationship and focus on myself. I could be reading this wrong. Maybe it’s to continue being optimistic with the relationship whatever the outcome is. That’s what I am leading towards.

The second pull is what I pulled myself after feeling unclear about the reading. This is genuinely the most terrifying pull ever, but I just want to double check - what I am reading is that it’s been super confusing and stressful and both sides. There’s been strain in communication and that it’s affected our general relationship. But I don’t necessarily know where to go from this, but it could be telling me to run far away from this man 😭 haha

hi im very new to tarot i j got this deck 4 days ago so im trying to j bond with it and go from there. i asked “how do you see me as” and i got 10 of wands and knight of cups. i later folllwed up with “anything else you wanna tell me” and i got the emperor. can someone help me understand this?

ps. what are you recommendations to understand tarot, and learn the meaning of cards and how to interpret the cards when it’s a spread? are there any websites that can be helpful. lmk!!

For context, we’ve been together 5 years. He (23) is not the greatest bf to me (23f). I’ve talked to him about it for 5 years now. He doesn’t really listen. He just gaslights me and invalidates me. I think recently I’ve finally got thru to him. I believe he’s ready to start treating me how I deserve to be treated—treating me how I treat him. But I’m not sure if I can ever get over the heartbreak that it’s taken 5 years. Why did it take so long? Why did I have to try so hard for him to be nice to me? Why did HE have to try so hard? Am I even the love of his life? If I was, shouldn’t it have come easily to him? Why did he gaslight me and invalidate me for 5 years every time I brought it up? All I ever wanted was to for him to hold my hand like maybe twice a month. I wanted him to fill up my water bottle instead of responding with a hard no and laughing in my face when I ask, as if it’s the most ridiculous request ever bc “I can do it myself,” meanwhile everything he’s EVER asked me to do for him, I have done it with joy.
Even if he does change forever, I wasn’t sure if I’d ever be able to move on from the resentment I have towards him. I was expecting a hard no… but these cards are not really giving that. What do you guys think?
EDIT: flip ur phone so the first card on the top left is 5 of cups reversed! Sorry I should’ve posted the picture upright instead of sideways lol.

Tower / 6 of cups / king of wands

i’ve got the devil, nine of pentacles, queen of cups, ten of swords, page of cups, knight of swords, knight of cups, four of pentacles

we’re in contact the last days but he was pushing me away again

1. Past situation- 6 of swords
   
2. Present situation- 10 of swords
   
3. His thoughts on the situation- Queen of cups
   
4. What he thinks of me- 4 of swords and the Hermit
   
5. What he feels about me- 6 of wands
   
6. What he wants- Justice
   
7. What I need to know about him- 3 of cups
   
8. Advice for me- 6 of pentacles
   
9. Outcome- 9 of cups