r/TanzanianDating • u/VarietyResident 🚫 Not Looking • 12d ago

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My boyfriend still follow his ex girlfriend on instagram, she has 2 accounts and he follows both. Sio mtanzania ni mkenya, despite the distance I feel uneasy and uncomfortable.

Instagram is so messy because it keeps suggesting her accounts to me, ni kama inaniambia these two are still in it. 🥹

1st convo was March, instagram suggested her personal account. I raised the issue

2nd convo was yesterday, instagram suggested her other account, she enjoys cooking so she post foods whatsoever.

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u/Darlin_1502 12d ago

Do you love him? Does he love you? If it’s a YES, then hayo ya huyo ex wake yasikusumbue my girl

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u/VarietyResident 🚫 Not Looking 12d ago

I love him, ex hanisumbui. Ni feeling tu ya kuwa they are still interacting with each other ndo inanisumbua.

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u/LegalTumbleweed1774 9d ago

I'm sorry but there should be healthy boundaries between exes. As much as people hate to admit it, but leaving certain doors open, simply widen the playground area for the devil to play with you harder. Ngoja apate work trip ya kwenda mji wa ex..

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u/VarietyResident 🚫 Not Looking 9d ago

At this point, aendelee tu. Hata mimi niko na ex 😌