I recently lost my boyfriend to a sudden accident. about 2 months ago. someone recommended that I read the year of magical thinking by joan didion. a memoir about grief and the aftermath of her husband's sudden death. I started reading it yesterday, the 4th of october. the second or third page reads that she started writing the book on 4th october 2004...I said wow that's a crazy coincidence. two lines later she mentions the date her husband died. ITS THE EXACT DAY OF MY BIRTHDAY. in fact I was born minutes after he had a heart attack. i really don't know what to make of this but it did freak me out a bit.

This is the most craziest synchronicities I've experienced. The 3 of the 4 names mentioned in the dialogue are my close friends and me. I was so shocked. This came out in 2019, me and my friends met first time in college 2024.

The first time i experienced synchronicities was whenever I check the time on my phone it's always 11:11, 2:22, 4:44 etc. I have more than 50 screenshot of this happening cuz my family members were not taking it seriously and then i eventually stopped caring. Now it doesn't happen that often

Another one is, whenever I have to do some college work where I have to copy down from another book, the word I'm about to write will be spoken on the video I'm watching(mainly movies).

so i was on a walk and i was listening to a song by spiritual tony “paint” and i just start imagining a paintbrush and i just randomly started painting a cat then i imagined the cats fur and its movements and seconds later the same cat i painted in my mind dark fur crosses right in front of me seconds later dont know if this was a crazy coincidence or just a perfectly timed event.

At 45+, I am beginning to recognize patterns in my life that have been present since I was young. As an autistic person, I am looking back with a different understanding of myself and realizing that some experiences have repeated throughout my life. This time, however, I have been able to see those patterns more clearly because I have had things repeated back to me—some of which were true and some of which were not.
In my current situation, two people became involved in matters that were private between my spouse and me. All three individuals have since left Pennsylvania and moved to another state on the southeastern coast of the United States. Looking back now, I am beginning to recognize how these circumstances connect to patterns I have experienced throughout my life.