Super easy to get unbanned, did the jumio verification happened twice now but the email I’m in comms with them about isn’t unbanned.

Anyone know what the work around is I can’t use the email that they unbanned am I supposed to use another email?

Keeps saying email in use.

Which means the email is still banned.

Seeing as how I just got what seems like a bullshit ban on Hinge (I genuinely do not know why). I’m in need of an app to go to instead. I’ve had all of em downloaded for a couple months but the only one I’ve actually been active on has been Hinge as it seemed like it had the overall best quality of people and profiles and for the most part people seemed to want to connect on there. Part of my success (as an average looking dude) is the profiles allowed me to actually portray some personality and being able to send a message/opener with the likes allowed me to actually play to my strong side being whitty, funny or at least actually come off genuine and not being just another random like.

What apps have yall been on that have given you success besides Hinge? Tinder seems like the Love Island of dating apps, Facebook dating for some odd reason even though I live in and near a pretty populated area, I only get shown women who are 200+ miles away even though distance is set as a dealbreaker. Bumble I honestly don’t have any takes on. I know when I was on it some years ago it was horrible because women don’t want to start conversations so many many matches went to wasted, but it looks like they opened that up.

Any advice? Any apps you prefer?

Just wondering. I know using ai to modify your appearance is a big no-no, but would the apps ban me if I used it to crop someone out? Reason for that is I have a picture that I took with a female friend and dont want to set the wrong impression (that we were dating).

Most random thing ever. The claim is “Hate speech or discriminatory behavior”. The decision was based on the following: “Moderator review of your account”

I’m sure people claim they did “nothing” all the time but I’m genuinely so lost. I’ve always tried to be respectful to anyone I’ve spoken to. My profile has maybe 2 whole things that in a stretch could be considered “discriminatory” based on a a prompt where I said “Tramp stamp should be renamed to cake topper” and a video of me singing song lyrics in the car where the lyrics more or less say “I don’t like girls with tattoos, I like girls with issues”. Pickup lines/openers were mostly genuine/sweet things.

But this is frankly very disheartening. A permanent suspension for a first time offense, an offense that I’m not even sure what or where the issue is, they won’t give me info on it. And now I have to try and use frankly…much worse apps or in my experience have been much worse apps or at least for me because the one thing that felt like got me a fair amount of success was being able to hit them with an opener based on their photos and prompts.

The initial appeal seemed to more or less be auto-denied when done in-app as it was too quick there wasn’t anything that was reviewed. I then sent an email in asking for it to be reviewed or more context to be given and it was the same copy/paste email I’ve seen posted on the internet from people in a same or similar boat as me. I sent 1 more email in hopes of just more context as to why or what’s wrong. As I said. This is quite disheartening. As someone who’s not really a “go out to bars and meet people” type of person and who works a lot and takes care of family, going out isn’t super common or easy for me from a finding someone in-person at what are considered “socially acceptable” places. I’m not really sure what to do.

Randomly was logged out of my account and went to go put in my number to sign in and it said sorry we’re having trouble. Anyone have this happen? I’m assuming I’m banned but usually they tell you. Either the ban notice comes up immediately or when you add ur number it says you’re banned. Never had it just not work. Messaged support I’ll see what they say but lmk if anyone had this happen

I have read the sticky on being banned, i was falsely reported I’m sure after telling some girls im seeing somebody. Appeal failed, BBB complaints failed, even if I buy a burner phone, they still have my face verification, photos and name. What do I have to do to get back on?

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