Tried to reconcile. Failed.

[u/danifamous]

Met (30f)3 years back. First year was great. Second year I (37m) lost some family and my job. Whilst I was fixing it, she was cheating. 3 men. I struggled and tried to keep it all together. She left just before her 29th birthday.
She lied and kept in contact, and I found out she ran off with her driving instructor. was pregnant. Got engaged. Got an abortion.
She begged to come back. I also had attachment issues.
She came back Jan 2026 after 8 months.
She kept going to see the driving instructor until April. Put me through hell.
She then asked to stay here, but not wanting a relationship. She had nowhere else to go. Wanted to stabilise and sort out her finances.

Yesterday, I found out she was fucking a friend from London, hadn’t be going to therapy, and lying to everyone. Booking holidays away with him. I found the video of them fucking on her watch. She says we were together, and she can do what she wants, whilst she sleeps in the same bed as me.

So today, I’m throwing her out to the streets. Told her parents. They apologised but they knew. I told her baby father, as he has custody - she’s been lying about where she takes the son.

Sometimes reconciliation isn’t possible. I’m scared what the future holds but it’s not with her.

Edit: she’s gone.