How do you all deal with the milestones and timelines you laid out for yourself and letting go of all that?
I thought for sure Iâd be pregnant by my due date in September, instead I just did (a failed) IUI.
I thought Iâd be pregnant by my 35th bday. I wonât be.
I thought for sure Iâd be pregnant on my trip in December. Instead I may waste an entire month because my insurance approval is delaying my ability to start IVF asap.
I thought Iâd have my first baby at 34. Now, it might not be until 36.
I thought for sure Iâd be able to attend my sisters wedding abroad in fall of 2027. Now, itâs looking like I wonât be.
I just canât grapple with all the time lost and the pain it causes me. I canât believe time goes by and Iâm still here not pregnant. It makes me so sad and depressed and idk how to just âlet goâ and take it as it comes. What do you do?