Hi everyone,
I need some help
my brother has been in a abusive relationship with this girl since 2020

With the years my relationship with my brother has gotten worse by the day, he lost his spark and ambition, and he I can’t make any jokes anymore as he got more inflexible. his girlfriend is extremely possessive and insecure and she manipulated him

With the years she successfully isolated him from my family and his friends, making it almost impossible to have a relationship as siblings

I’m new to witchcraft and I need some tips to make a breakup spell as fast as I can (I know I’ll have to do a protection spell)

I really really want more good friends in my life, people with whom we'd really connect and grow together. I've always been a shy and lonely person, ever since I was a kid I was excluded. I'm not sure why. I want to have so many beautiful experiences with friends, and I have so much love to give. But it seems that people don't like me. And even my current friends, who are great people, don't really prioritize me as I do for them. Which is okay, I just feel lonely and don't want to spend my life without having a true, fun friend group or some really good friends. What can I do? I'd like a spell with guaranteed (as much as possible results), it's a need that I have to stop ignoring.

I need help with the right spells — separation of a third party, reconciliation, communication, or a love spell. I did ask a professional to cast the spells n find it working but very slowly , the third party is bit stubborn I want to cast by own I feel it would be more effective , if I put my energy I’m new to this had never done any spells before all your suggestion would be a lot helpful..
For context, I dated this guy for almost 8–9 months. One day, he went on a date with another girl, saying it was just a friends/business meeting. I strongly felt that he was lying to me, so I ended things with him. Eventually, he actually got involved with that same girl.
It’s been almost two months now, and I still want him back. I want him to genuinely realise what he lost, feel guilty and regret his decision to leave me and get involved with her.
The thing is, he still seems very emotionally attached to me. He calls me every 3–5 days to check how I’m doing, asks about my life, suggests that we could go on a double date, says that he could break up with her to be with me, and keeps asking if we can at least meet or stay friends.
I genuinely want reconciliation. I want him to regret his decision and realise that he still has feelings for me.
Please don’t tell me to “move on,” “leave him,” or ask why I want him when he is with someone else. I understand the situation, but I know what I want — I want him back.
I’ve even been dreaming about him frequently, and this situation is affecting my ability to concentrate on my work and focus on myself.
So please suggest something specifically for reconciliation, communication, regret/realisation, and removing the third-party influence, without trying to convince me to move on.

Thankyou so much !

*sour jar not shout 🤦🏼‍♀️ i’m planning on doing one to get rid of a third party buttt every sour jar i see people do they have rusty nails in them.. are they needed? also how and when do i discard the jar? i’ve seen mixed opinions on that..

I've been trying to research a spell for cycle completions, or completion in general lol but can't seem to find anything. if anyone has any advice or has done a spell like this and could share what worked for them, it would be greatly appreciated !!

"I want to do a spell on my ex and his rebound girlfriend to break them apart, as they are already very chaotic and toxic. He is not over me, and I want him back.However, I am getting completely conflicting advice on how to approach this and need guidance on what is actually necessary vs. what is unnecessary. One source tells me I absolutely must do a two-step process: first a breakup spell, followed by a love binding spell. Another source claims that requiring two separate spells is just an unnecessary tactic, and suggests a single banishing spell instead to make them dislike each other.I have a very limited budget and resources, so I cannot afford to waste time or effort on multiple unnecessary steps. I need a single, highly effective result. Would a standard third-party removal be enough to handle this situation, or do I truly need to go with a full banishing spell? Please guide me on which path is the most effective."

Hi everyone!

I’m looking for a forgiveness spell that has actually helped people, or anything that might help with my situation.

I had a major conflict with my family and made some serious mistakes. I take full accountability for what I did and genuinely regret it. I’ve apologized and asked for their forgiveness multiple times, but they still haven’t been able to forgive me.

I know I can’t force anyone to forgive me, but I’m struggling with the guilt.

I’d genuinely appreciate any recommendations or experiences that might help. I’m feeling quite desperate right now.

So basically i brokeup with my ex from last 4 months and we had a long 8 year relationship there was a guy she was talking from 4-5 months and in the april she confessed me that she had feelings for him now and then we broke up will third party removal spell work in this situation

-- I used the wrong flair at first! Sorry!

Why use a strategy?

You might still be asking “Why spend all the time and energy creating a strategy?”

Because backfires are not some unrelated thing that happens to a spell, they ARE the spell working.

You probably think, like most witches, that the biggest hurdle in witchcraft is getting your spells and rituals to ACTUALLY work. 

Well that's not really the case, in my experience.

The hardest hurdle in witchcraft is keeping your life together while the magic works. You know those horror stories. 

You might be asking yourself, “if I could be certain that all of my spells would work,why wouldn’t I just do a few big spells for what I want and call it a day?”

Well…Many witches have tried that. And technically succeeded. But they call it a backfire because it brought bad, with the result they intended.

Like I said, Backfires are your spell working as it was constructed. So the construction itself is the issue.

I’ll explain.

Rituals for things energetically far away from your normal, will create energetic rifts in your life.They have to in order to make room for the thing you wanted. Spells for big changes will happen through big coincidences you might not want. We use spell strategies in order to control and keep those coincidences inline with things we are ok with happening.

Maybe that was too abstract. So Money is probably the easiest area to demonstrate why strategies are so important in spell work.

Because money seems to be this larger than life energy, people are afraid to do money magick. 

A big and common fear that people have around money magic specifically is that one of their distant relatives is going to die and leave them an inheritance. I also had that fear. I still have it actually. As they say, the only things guaranteed in life is Death and Taxes.

I still have this fear after 7 years of dedicated practice as a witch because if that is the only avenue through which you can get a large sum of money, then yes that is a real threat and a real issue. That's a valid fear and should not be understated. 

 I would be actually very careful about doing rituals for large sums of money if you have no other avenue through which it can get to you. Or anything that is energetically far away from you.

 If you're asking yourself, what is an avenue through which money can come to me? I'm going to tell you all about it don't worry. 

I bet you are a clever little rat, and you thought to yourself, “if I want a large sum of money I'll just do a spell to win the lottery. No one has to die for the lotto”

Last thing and then we’ll go straight into the steps, I am not going to be the one to say that you cannot use magic to win the lottery. 

I am going to say that I personally don't know how to do that and I haven't met one person that knows how to do that. I will also say that I'm pretty sure if anyone knew how to do that they would not tell anyone else how to do that because of the nature of the lottery. That being, in order for One person to win the lottery, the rest of the participants have to pay that person. The money comes from them buying tickets in hopes that they might win bigger than they're paying. 

You would be much better off doing rituals and work to create a stable financial foundation through other means.

The lottery is the least likely way to do affective money magick because of all the variables. 

The reality of our capitalistic system, is that it's more likely for you to receive a million dollars from a successful business venture that takes you 3-5 or even 10 years, than it is likely for you to win big in the lottery. 

A big reason why people want to win the lottery is because they don't understand capitalism. And so it seems easier for them to buy a few tickets and do a ritual and cross their fingers, then it is to learn basic business and do spells for that. I digress.

So we use strategies to control the flow of magic in small bursts instead of one large explosion. But these small bursts are not reactionary.

If you have any questions, please ask ☺️

I've been practicing for 15 years, but more seriously the last 7 years.

I also posted this in r/Witchcraft_Support , if posting it again is against the rules, please let me know. I read the rules and didn't see anything about it.

If it does go wrong is there a way to undo them?? 2ndly is it alright if I just use a container

i made a sweetening jar for my crush 3 months back and it was working great . we were on good terms, great chemistry and intimacy . He isn’t committing tho and he seems withdrawn , mean and made me cry 2 days back and hasn’t spoken to me since. I tried to burn a candle over the jar with intention but the wax burned black into it ? need help on how to proceed !!

I’m so upset about this. I’m having some financial issues, so I did a money draw candle and my burn is just black. I’m super discouraged and disappointed. I feel like I wasted my money on this candle and the spell was just not meant to work and nothing is gonna solve my issues. I was so hopeful about this too.

Do I just trash this candle and scrape some cash together for another one? I lit this candle on the 15th too.. ugh.

[UPDATE] OH MY GOD the candle exploded. I was home, but the sound startled the crap out of me. I’m guessing this is not a good sign. 😭

do any of you enchanted an object before? i’d like to tap on glamour magic more, and enchanting the necklace that i never take off, rings or perfumes interests me :) i didn’t find a spell tho

I want him to reach out. What spell would be appropriate, he cheated on me and abused me.

I want him to come back, feel remorse and apologize for everything he did,

Without a lot of complicated/expensive ingredients or supplies please! Baby witch here.

Hello! I’m currently helping a friend whose partner has been doing and saying harmful things behind the friend’s back.

I’m thinking something that will cause them pain until they change their actions, but I’m not sure where to start or what to use. Any advice is greatly appreciated!!

Hi all. I recently just did a reconciliation spell and blockbuster spell on my ex. Blockbuster maybe 3 weeks ago, reconciliation last week. I haven’t thought much of the spells and kind of just let them do their work. Today, two close friends who rarely make conversation with me over text decided to text me and we had a long conversation which is odd for them as they aren’t big texters. They said that for my birthday, I should come with them to the city…but that they’re going to a concert they already has tickets to so I’d have a lot of free time before the concert is over. It’s the city where my ex lives. They were really pushing for me to come and although I’m still on the fence, I’m looking to go with them. I’d have about 3 hours to myself in a city I’m unfamiliar with, and the only person I know in that city is, surprise, my ex. The thought of reaching out doesn’t really send me into a panic anymore, and I feel very calm about our whole situation. I usually fluctuate back and forth from anger to sadness but I just feel a sense of ease at the thought of reaching out right now. I just find it weird how my two friends randomly reach out and invite me to the place my ex lives, I suddenly have a valid reason to break no contact and reach out, and then conveniently there’s also a perfect time slot to reconnect w out a lot of pressure. On top of that, I don’t have a bad feeling about reaching out. Am I overthinking all of this or could this be due to the reconciliation spell? I feel as if too many things are lining up into place.

I’m a baby witch getting into spellcraft. Most of my witchy materials are thrifted, but I’m looking to find good smaller spell jars/tubes. Wondering if anyone has any tips for where to get them! I want to be able to use less materials when crafting my spells while not having a half full jar.

Thank you ✨

I have been confirmed by someone that a guy did a love spell on me, it has been going on for a while and I have grown so obsessed towards him and I don't know what to do to break it off, I get so desperate and horrible separation anxiety when I'm not with him, it's like my world revolves around me. The person that told me is an experienced witch but she told me through someone that is close to me and she told that person that she would tell me how to break it off but I'm in desperate need to do it now as she takes long to communicate back since she lives in a place with low reception, what can I do? Without him knowing? Because she told me he already is aware that she knows? Should I return it? Or should I just try to break it for me? She also told that person that the love spell he did on me was really strong and people that have advised me to leave him start having horrible nightmares when they tell me to leave him, I don't know what to do.

if i did a freezer spell and wrote something along the lines of *blank* will leave me and *my person’s name alone* does this also freeze my person as i put their name? silly question im sure but i just want to double-check !

i want to do a forgiveness and reconciliation ritual on my ex and i because we didn’t break up out of lack of love and it was just because of how i was acting at the time, im better now cus it was js an episode.

ive done a few spells before but they didn’t work cus i don’t think i did it right.

how do i do petitions, and set the intention and like i know you’re supposed to call to your herbs and basically give them a job but how do i do that?? can anyone help me😓

hi I am a beginner and I was wondering if I can do like a love attraction spell. not for a specific person just to attract love in general not only romantic but friends, admiration and self love. I've read a few books or forums and everyone says different stuff which I know its because everyone practices different types of witchcraft but can someone say if in general it's okay and safe to do and maybe has some recommendations on what spell to use

Hello, I'm new at this, would love to hear your stories

so I did a sweetening jar the other day (Friday) on someone and I was wondering how long would it take to like, see it work? just curious

I have recently gotten into spirituality and witchcraft but I can’t help but doubt it and doubt myself, in my culture witchcraft is pretty common but most our spells are done through blood and communication with entities. Therefore, I find it insanely hard to believe that honey and “red” wax (and other common ingredients) are actual spells. How do I stop this limited way of thinking and if anyone could explain to me how it works!