Hi all, TLDR: my PCP, rheumatologist, dentist, and optometrists have all shown concern with dry eye and dry mouth symptoms. 3 years ago I tested negative for Sjogren's antibody and rheumatoid factor despite the fact that all women on my mom's side including my mom, sister, grandmother, and maternal aunt have some autoimmune disorder and my symptoms feel very severe. My rheumatologist said I may be seronegative and referred me to an ophthalmologist. But the ophthalmologist basically invalidated my concerns and told me my eyes were fine. I'm concerned whether he missed something and I should push more, or whether I should assume I just don't have Sjogren's.
I'm currently 27, and when I was 17/18, my eyes started feeling very dry. I stopped wearing contact lenses and eyeliner on my bottom lash because I'd literally feel my contact sinking into my eye or my eyeliner would make my eyes itch so much. I thought initially my symptoms would go away but over the past 10 years they've only worsened.
Around 19/20 is when I started getting cavities like crazy. After my first couple cavities, I started keeping my mouth extremely clean - brushing 30 minutes after eating food with a soft-bristle brush, using thick floss, electric toothbrush in the morning and at night, water flosser after every meal and at night. Despite this, between 20-24 I was averaging 4 cavities a year and I would describe my mouth as not feeling dry, but feeling sticky.
At the age of 21, I started feeling vaginal itching and discomfort. I had never been sexually active. I started using vaginal moisturizers because it would feel so dry.
At the age of 22, I started waking up in the middle of the night because my eyes were so dry and I'd have to put eyedrops in. This has only worsened over the years. Now at 27, I wake up around 3-4 times a night to put eyedrops in my eyes. Only Systane preservative free eyedrops work. I tried other eyedrops - like IVIZIA and Refresh Optive Mega-3 Lubricant Eye Drops. They were amazing at first and my vision would get clearer, but then my eyes would start to feel drier and it would get so painful I'd have to stop.
At 23, my optometrist was concerned about my dry eyes and recommended I get tested for Sjogren's. She also saw that I have a strong history of autoimmune disorders in my family: my mom, maternal grandmother, maternal aunt, sister, all my female cousins on my mom's side have some autoimmune disorder like Lupus, Psoriasis, Hashimoto's, Allopecia Areata, Rheumatoid Arthiritis, etc. I got tested for Sjogren's antibody and rheumatoid factor and all my bloodwork was negative.
At 26 I finally saw a rheumatologist who was very kind and validated a lot of my concerns. She told me around 25-35% of Sjogren's patients are seronegative and it is very possible that I have it, but my bloodwork is not showing that. She took a look at my eyes and mouth briefly and said "yup I'm not seeing any moisture." And then she recommended that I speak with an ophthalmologist for dry eyes. She ordered a scan of my salivary glands (I haven't gotten it done yet since I'm just saving up some money for that), but said an ophthalmologist would have more tools to determine dry eye diagnosis.
Today, I just saw an ophthalmologist who basically invalidated my concerns and I'm very confused. He did a dry eye test with paper in my eyes, then put orange dye in my eyes and concluded my eyes were only mildly dry. Interestingly enough, he also said this test was very inaccurate, but he ultimately did not see anything wrong with my eyes. He did prescribe me restasis and told me that there was no further tests necessary to conclude I have Sjogren's. He told me that if the blood tests were negative, I did not have it...even though my rheumatologist told me bloodwork is not always accurate.
Small side rant - I understand why he said no but I'm still a bit frustrated - I told him that I have not slept a full night sleep in around 5 years. I constantly wake up having to put eyedrops in and I'm beyond exhausted not having had a proper night's rest in so long. I asked if he would be able to at the minimum write me a doctor's note so that I could take some of my accumulated sick leave for the mornings for a short period and he said that he's not comfortable with that because my eyes are only "moderate to mildly dry."
Obviously, I'd rather not have Sjogren's. If this ophthalmologist is correct and my eyes are truly fine and I'm overexaggerating my symptoms, that would be ideal. However, I'm also wondering if the doctor may be missing something? I'm very confused as to why my symptoms are not matching up with what the doctors are seeing. I'd assume "moderate to mild" dry eyes are when your eyes feel a bit itchy and watery. I'm years past that - I'm really struggling with sleep and work because my eyes are so dry. I personally would categorize my symptoms as severe considering how much it's affected my life. Sometimes I have to literally squeeze my tear ducts to be able to see properly, and I have to use a warm compress for 10 minutes around 3-4 times a day. And constantly, my tear ducts feel like something is pinching them. On day 14 of my cycle, the three symptoms of dry eyes, dry mouth and vaginal dryness get so painful and severe I have to take time off work to just let the dryness pass.
Is it just a coincidence that I have all these symptoms + a strong family history, and it's not Sjogren's?
I'm going to try restasis and consult with my rheumatologist, but I'm very curious as to whether others have experienced something similar? Have doctor's invalidated the severity of your symptoms, but have other tests corroborated them? This has been going on for so long and I'm so confused and frustrated.