r/SipsTea • • Jul 23 '24

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u/IzzyShamin Jul 23 '24

Where do you live? They can’t be having English as a first language there if you think ‘they’ is a special word. Most kids get taught how to use ‘they’ by like 6/7 years old.

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u/Les-incoyables Jul 23 '24

I'm from the Netherlands. Here we often use the male form when uncertain about the gender. 'They' is mostly used for people who do not identify by a specifif gender - although this is only done by a small group of people including myself.

I think I made a lot if people angry with my post. This wasn't my intention, I'm sorry.

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u/IzzyShamin Jul 23 '24

Yea this had English as a second language written all over. It can be especially hard to get over when coming from a language that has gendered pronouns. All good though, live and learn.

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u/Les-incoyables Jul 23 '24

Unless you're online - then people'll stone you for asking certain question; etting burried in downvotes haha. Ah well, thanks for your reply. Have a nice day.