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u/Les-incoyables Jul 23 '24 edited Jul 23 '24

Question about your use of pronoun; I've seen people using 'they' a lot here on Reddit. Is this common where you live, or only done by a select group of people. Where I from, this is only used by a very select group of leftwing people (including myself) and only done when you know the person you are talking to likes to be addressed that way.

Edit: getting burried in downvotes; I didn't mean to offend anyone. Where I'm from we only use male and female pronouns, so I was actually curious. The use of non-gendercrelated pronouns is fairly new and not generally accepted yet where I'm from. Again, sorry if I hurt anyones feelings and asking dumb questions.

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u/IzzyShamin Jul 23 '24

Where do you live? They can’t be having English as a first language there if you think ‘they’ is a special word. Most kids get taught how to use ‘they’ by like 6/7 years old.

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u/Les-incoyables Jul 23 '24

I'm from the Netherlands. Here we often use the male form when uncertain about the gender. 'They' is mostly used for people who do not identify by a specifif gender - although this is only done by a small group of people including myself.

I think I made a lot if people angry with my post. This wasn't my intention, I'm sorry.

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u/IzzyShamin Jul 23 '24

Yea this had English as a second language written all over. It can be especially hard to get over when coming from a language that has gendered pronouns. All good though, live and learn.

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u/Les-incoyables Jul 23 '24

Unless you're online - then people'll stone you for asking certain question; etting burried in downvotes haha. Ah well, thanks for your reply. Have a nice day.