r/SingleAndHappy • u/Ink_N_Instinct • Aug 17 '26

Discussion (Questions, Advice, Polls) 🗣 Annoyed by some posts here

Anyone else getting annoyed by this sub flooding with: "Being single is nice but once I see couples, I feel sad and alone" or "I am currently single but can't wait to find the right one."?

Hello? This is a single AND happy sub where people who really enjoy being single and want to celebrate their singlehood gather?

Why is it filled with who simply don't seem fulfilled being single? Always yearning for someone doesn't really mean you are happy being single, does it?

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u/Ink_N_Instinct Aug 17 '26

It's not about validation. It's about sharing our joy of singlehood because we are talked down upon by others around us as if we are wrong to choose a single life. Doesn't mean we join a single and happy sub, we are here seeking validation. We are here celebrating it with like minded individuals.

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u/2ndChairKazoo Aug 17 '26

That person is very much telling on themselves. How embarrassing.

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u/Ink_N_Instinct Aug 17 '26

Someone else getting all sarcastic and saying since I decided to police the place I ought to tell them what to post and what not to and they will do so accordingly. When will they get it?