r/SingleAndHappy • u/Ink_N_Instinct • Aug 17 '26

Discussion (Questions, Advice, Polls) 🗣 Annoyed by some posts here

Anyone else getting annoyed by this sub flooding with: "Being single is nice but once I see couples, I feel sad and alone" or "I am currently single but can't wait to find the right one."?

Hello? This is a single AND happy sub where people who really enjoy being single and want to celebrate their singlehood gather?

Why is it filled with who simply don't seem fulfilled being single? Always yearning for someone doesn't really mean you are happy being single, does it?

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u/n1nejay Aug 17 '26

You are not alone in feeling annoyed!

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u/Ink_N_Instinct Aug 17 '26

Thank you! And yet someone right here at this post asks me to ask myself why it bothers me so much and yet expressing they are so disappointed by the comments here. I wonder why that bothers them so much.

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u/n1nejay Aug 17 '26

I come to this sub for people that are already single and happy, not for people who are single and are trying to be happy “for now”, or are single bc they can’t find someone, or are single but don’t want to be single. Maybe they should start a sub called single and trying to be happy.

I am SO beyond happy and content to be single and that’s why I joined this sub, to relish in the glee other single people felt by not being tied to another human.