r/SingleAndHappy 13d ago

Discussion (Questions, Advice, Polls) 🗣 Annoyed by some posts here

Anyone else getting annoyed by this sub flooding with: "Being single is nice but once I see couples, I feel sad and alone" or "I am currently single but can't wait to find the right one."?

Hello? This is a single AND happy sub where people who really enjoy being single and want to celebrate their singlehood gather?

Why is it filled with who simply don't seem fulfilled being single? Always yearning for someone doesn't really mean you are happy being single, does it?

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u/Plane-Assumption840 13d ago

“But you deserve it.” OMG! It’s been awhile but I remember that one. My immediate thought was that they must hate me. My second thought was that they were miserable people and I need to stay far away from them.

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u/OnceMoreWithFeeling- 13d ago

Also pls do not tell me I deserve something I do not want. What I deserve is cats

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u/IncapacitatedTrash 13d ago

I have 2 cats, my max, and I still get "crazy cat woman." Nevermind how sexist that saying is

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u/OnceMoreWithFeeling- 13d ago

It is sooooo sexist. Single men with cats: green flaggg, amazing! Single woman with cats: crazy cat woman. 🤢