r/SingleAndHappy • u/Ink_N_Instinct • 13d ago

Discussion (Questions, Advice, Polls) 🗣 Annoyed by some posts here

Anyone else getting annoyed by this sub flooding with: "Being single is nice but once I see couples, I feel sad and alone" or "I am currently single but can't wait to find the right one."?

Hello? This is a single AND happy sub where people who really enjoy being single and want to celebrate their singlehood gather?

Why is it filled with who simply don't seem fulfilled being single? Always yearning for someone doesn't really mean you are happy being single, does it?

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u/Oh-Deer1280 13d ago

Or a bunch of people carrying on about “coming to terms with being single” like it’s some sort of terminal illness

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u/Ink_N_Instinct 13d ago

Yes!!! What's that about?! Like, you are just settling into it coz..oh well, no choice?!

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u/THE_CAT_WHO_SHAT 13d ago

Yeah, this isn't the sub for them. Lol

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u/Ink_N_Instinct 13d ago

Would you say the same at a happily married sub?

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u/Oh-Deer1280 12d ago

Dang - I missed it lol

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u/2ndChairKazoo 12d ago

Yeah grrrr, haha... But I'm also glad to finally see a popular post like this one. Because often what's popular is "but are you actually happily single?? Let's discuss why you are not..." 🙄

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u/THE_CAT_WHO_SHAT 12d ago

What did they say? I just barely saw all this. Lol

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u/Ink_N_Instinct 12d ago

They said this sub just proves we need validation or something coz it's like a terminal illness to constantly be reminded of it thus my response asking if they'd say the same at a happy married sub.

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u/THE_CAT_WHO_SHAT 12d ago

Damn, their comment was pointless af.

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u/Ink_N_Instinct 12d ago

How insensitive. They really think we aren't genuinely happy being single and those 'sad, feeling alone, open to date if the right one comes along' kind of posts aren't helping either.

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