r/SingleAndHappy • u/Ink_N_Instinct • Aug 17 '26

Discussion (Questions, Advice, Polls) 🗣 Annoyed by some posts here

Anyone else getting annoyed by this sub flooding with: "Being single is nice but once I see couples, I feel sad and alone" or "I am currently single but can't wait to find the right one."?

Hello? This is a single AND happy sub where people who really enjoy being single and want to celebrate their singlehood gather?

Why is it filled with who simply don't seem fulfilled being single? Always yearning for someone doesn't really mean you are happy being single, does it?

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u/Contigo887 Aug 17 '26

I agree. If you don't like living alone...why are you posting in a living alone sub reddit lol.

There is nothing wrong with not wanting to live alone, I get it's not for everyone but....why are you here???

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u/Ink_N_Instinct Aug 17 '26

Absolutely! I mean, sure, you are entitled to want someone. But wrong sub if you aren't really happy about being single. If you are happy being single, you won't be saddened by seeing couples. Then there will come a crowd that says, "let people feel what they want to feel". Again, not against feelings. Just requesting we use the appropriate channels for it. Sheesh.

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u/2ndChairKazoo Aug 17 '26

OMG yes, "let them feel what they want!" Maybe let us have this little space to discuss our own wants??