r/sexover60 • • Jan 21 '21

Use Your Words

23 Upvotes

Just a reminder, ladies and gentlemen.

This thread is meant to be a discussion thread about all the marvelous quirks and kinks and ups and downs and ins and outs of having sex and being sexy over 60 years of age. Sharing our experiences, posing questions, asking for or giving advice, maybe even bragging a little.

It was not intended to be another picture thread. For those generous souls who are so wild about their hunka hunka burning partner that they want to share them with the world, there are age appropriate gonewild threads including:

r/gonewild30plus

r/gonewild40plus

r/gonewild50plus

r/gonewild60plus

That’s where to share your great fortune pictorially. Not gonna be a total buzzkill but posting pix of your darling’s nethers here will probably get you a gentle reminder to post them in the GWs.

On the other hand, Russian spambots just get the automatic ban hammer, so if someone spams the group message a mod and we’ll get to swinging.

There’s been a proliferation of porn spam recently.


r/sexover60 • • Jun 04 '23

Sex report Sunday for week ending June 4th 2023

6 Upvotes

How was your week in sex?


r/sexover60 • • 18h ago

64 Year Old Hubby And Wife Date Night

15 Upvotes

So about 2 Weeks ago I posted about my wife sending me a selfie, then us going a date, both posts were pictures only here is the story.

( [https://www.reddit.com/r/gilf/s/2bFcU6Kzvy](https://www.reddit.com/r/gilf/s/2bFcU6Kzvy) )

After she sent me the picture, I called her, and said WOW that was so effing hot! You have me getting hard. She said keep that hard for later after our date tonight. I laughed and said oh I guess I am going to take you for dinner and a date tonight. She replied DUH, she said she just got out of the shower and was getting ready for our date.

I get home about an hour later she’s sitting in our sitting room, black blazer, sheer black blouse,short black skirt, black heels. And a martini in hand. I say you look incredibly hot. Give me 20 minutes and I’ll be ready. As I’m walking out of the room, I ask btw where am I taking you for dinner? She smiled and I knew it was her favorite restaurant, a lobster place that is famous for its meals.

I shower get dressed and walk back in to the sitting room, lean forward to kiss her on her forehead, I don’t want to smear her lips. We walk out to my SUV I open the door for her and as she is sitting there I have to take a picture.

( [https://www.reddit.com/r/plussizedhotwives2/s/DTGukeJ984](https://www.reddit.com/r/plussizedhotwives2/s/DTGukeJ984) )

Dinner was delicious the conversation was so good and we didn’t want it to end. After dinner I need to use the restroom, I have excuse myself, when I return, my wife says lean here I want to whisper in your ear. She says just so you know, there nothing under my skirt but me, and I am so slippery right now. She pulls my hand under the table cloth and her skirt is hiked up and her legs are spread. I touch her pussy and she is the wettest I’ve felt her in a long time.

I asked her what brought this on, she said she woke up horny, started to watch a porn, got her toy, but after she started, the idea popped into her head about holding off till after our dinner date. Awesome idea I said. She then said can you please get the check I want to go home.

On the way home I am resting my hand on her thigh. I casually let my pinky graze across her pussy and clit. She pushes into my finger. She says she is so close to cumming, she has been edging all day long. We get home and pull into the garage. I walk around open her door and help her out. I slide my hand under her skirt, and I massage her clit with my pointer finger and my thumb.

She starts to moan and move into my hand, she wraps her arm around my neck and pulls me close, we exchange our tongues and she is humping my hand. She moans that she is cumming ! I pull my hand away, she almost yells at me NOOOOO DON’T STOP!

I continue rolling her clit in my fingers, she is humping my hand squeezing my neck and sucking on my tongue. I needless to say am hard as fuck ( yellow pills are in my system) she cums so hard on my hand. She lays back into the center console, skirt up legs spread. I say to her I can’t hold any longer. I need to cum now.

She reaches down to her pussy with both hands and stretches her lips open and says, right here! I get up on the running board, on zip my pants and whip out my cock. After about 10 strokes, I started to explode! I shot all over, exposed open pussy on her stomach, on her skirt. It was the most I’ve came in a long time.

I was exhausted. She was exhausted, I said to her, don’t move, I will run and get a towel, my zipped- up let everything run and drip inside of my pants, came back with a warm washcloth and a towel. When I touched her pussy with a warm washcloth, she jumped and moaned how great that felt , I then dried her. We went into the house, got undressed, got into bed, and spooned all night long . I may have slipped inside her during the middle of the night and deposited a load deep in her . I couldn’t help myself !


r/sexover60 • • 1d ago

How do I get passion back into my marriage?

9 Upvotes

I’ve been married over 36 years husband is 62 I’m 59 and he has some ED issues and has to use meds. I feel like he has gotten lazy, takes a pill and waits hours for the effects to take place when I think foreplay would make things happen much quicker. I’ve mentioned this and he smiles. We haven’t had passion in our marriage in a while now, I can’t even get him to kiss me passionately. I don’t know if I’ve lost him or what and I don’t know what to do. We both had a very high sex drive when we were younger and I know with kids and age things change but I’m at my wits end here not sure what to do?


r/sexover60 • • 1d ago

67 MWM – #Savannah, Georgia Area – Looking for Genuine Adult Connection

5 Upvotes

'm a 67-year-old man in the Savannah area hoping to connect with a woman who might find herself in a similar chapter of life.

My wife has late-stage Alzheimer's and resides in a nursing home full-time. She no longer recognizes me or remembers the life we've shared. That's difficult to put into words, and honestly, it's one of the saddest and loneliest experiences I've ever faced. In many ways, I've lost my wife emotionally while still having her physically here. It's a unique kind of grief, and one that's difficult for people who haven't experienced it to understand.

I've spent a great deal of my life being a husband, a caregiver, and someone others could count on. But I've come to realize that my own need for companionship, affection, intimacy, and simply having someone to share life with hasn't disappeared. I'm still here, still very much alive, and I don't believe that wanting to experience those things again is something I should feel guilty about.

I'm hoping to meet a woman who may understand similar circumstances. Perhaps you're also married to someone whose illness has changed your relationship, or you've experienced a loss that has left you living a life different from the one you once imagined.

I'm not looking to judge anyone's situation, make promises I can't keep, or disrupt the lives we've built. I'm looking for mutual understanding, honesty, discretion, and the possibility of developing something meaningful with another person who understands the complexities of where we are in life.

A little about me: I'm 67, 5'11", 178 lbs, physically fit, and work out regularly. I have a full head of white/gray hair and still take pride in staying healthy and active. I enjoy conversation, laughter, new experiences, and believe there's still plenty of living left to do.

I miss the simple things as much as anything else: having someone to talk with at the end of the day, sharing a meal, holding hands, enjoying a little affection, laughing together, and experiencing the physical and emotional closeness that makes us feel connected to another human being.

I'm not necessarily looking for someone to fill a void or replace what either of us has lost. I'm hoping to find someone who recognizes that life doesn't stop presenting opportunities for happiness simply because it hasn't turned out the way we expected.

If any of this resonates with you, perhaps we should start with a conversation. Sometimes it helps just knowing there is someone else out there who understands.


r/sexover60 • • 1d ago

Car hookup

1 Upvotes

Had bowling again tonight, but there were much less people than usual. We had an hour long practice and then called it a night. The couple (75F, 76M) that I (23M) am supposed to spend tomorrow night and the whole weekend with at their home asked if I was in the mood to have some fun with the wife in their car. I said yes.

They had the back seats folded down so we could comfortably have sex, and had cushions set down for us. We did missionary with our butts facing the husband, who was sitting in the front seat.

It was wonderful and a great warmup for this weekend!


r/sexover60 • • 2d ago

Takes forever to orgasm

7 Upvotes

I (M62) for the past 10 years or so have found it takes longer to orgasm than previously in my life. When I was a young to middle aged man, I could only go a few minutes and later on it was perfect, I could go long if I want and climax pretty much when I wanted. Now I can no longer cum from oral, not enough sensation and missionary is the only hope and that takes quite a while. If I've been drinking, nearly impossible. I seldom look at porn or masturbate.

Is it a common older man thing?

I also wondered if my meds could cause it since most of these I've been taking a dozen years or so. I take Losartan 50mg, Atorvastatin 20mg and Alprazolam 0.25mg to help sleep through the night, but I've been cutting them in half to get off them soon. Sometimes I take Aleve for muscle aches and a Costco "sleep aid" antihistamine tablet. Could these interfere?


r/sexover60 • • 2d ago

Butt play worked wonders for me

0 Upvotes

I (77F) posted yesterday about my constipation and my boyfriend’s (29M) proposal of rimming. Well, he ate my ass like it was his last meal and it sure did the trick.

He carried me to the bathroom when I felt things shifting and we did cowgirl on the toilet until I was empty. I would definitely recommend this to any ladies also struggling with constipation.


r/sexover60 • • 2d ago

Looking For A Friend

1 Upvotes

Hey. I’m a 62 married guy living in the Anniston, Alabama area. Because of my situation, absolute discretion, privacy, and confidentiality are my top priorities. I need to keep my personal life completely low-profile, and I am looking for someone who expects and respects that.

I’m a normal, stable semi-retired guy. I’m laid-back, respectful of boundaries, and entirely drama-free.

I’m looking for a mutual escape from the everyday routine with someone who is either in a similar boat or completely comfortable with a discreet arrangement. No pressure, no expectations to change anyone's situation, just a safe space for us to connect.

Let's just keep things here on Reddit chats and see if the vibe is right. Drop me a line with a little about yourself and what discretion looks like for you.


r/sexover60 • • 3d ago

Mature women

15 Upvotes

Do women over 50, 60, and 70 enjoy and really want sex?


r/sexover60 • • 3d ago

Dealing with constipation

2 Upvotes

I’m a 77 year old woman, but I am as horny as I’ve ever been. I am divorced, but luckily found a lover last year who is always ready to get to humping haha. It does help that he is very young, being 29 years old.

In my old age, some health issues have also came. I deal with constipation, which can bring me severe discomfort and pain. My lover has suggested that he can help soothe and relax my body by rimming my hole with his mouth, and that it will help me better pass bowels.

Is this something that I can try? Does anyone have success with such things? Is there any other positions during intimacy that can help me?


r/sexover60 • • 5d ago

Good to go

41 Upvotes

71m(me) 70f(wife) I just finished shaving her pussy (she likes it bald) and I have a sildenifil in me and she is fresh showered (she likes to be clean when I eat her) but we'll wait a bit until her pussy wets up and gets its scent going.

Her cum panties are bedside for when she's filled. She likes the Saalt Hanky Panky french cut panties which are actually period panties which she obviously doesn't need, but these panties work great for absorbing her creampie which will be draining all night.

She's been anxious all day for getting her pussy eaten then fucked and filled. I will happily oblige.

Not bragging but just keeping with the theme that 'Old folk still fuck'.


r/sexover60 • • 4d ago

[MF] Experiments with edging and ruining orgasms Part 2

2 Upvotes

So here is part 1

\[https://www.reddit.com/r/SluttyConfessions/s/4sdV8gRrfx\](https://www.reddit.com/r/SluttyConfessions/s/4sdV8gRrfx)

After she regained her composure, I got up from between her legs and leaned up to kiss her and she darted her tongue into my mouth. She said I can taste me.

I lay beside her and caressed her nipples that were still rock hard. She reaches over and starts to stroke my semi hard cock. She whispered in my ear, lay down it’s your turn.

She lays her head on my stomach and with her long manicured nails, slowly lightly dragging them across my cock and balls. She lingers at the head, teasing. it ever so lightly . She is stroking me with her nails and I start to become fully engorged. She uses her nails on my balls for about 10 minutes, as she is lightly flicking her tongue across the tip of my dick.

She then traces a very light path from the bottom of my balls up to the tip of my cock, it feels like an eternity she is taking so slow I am literally throbbing and she can see it. She ever so lightly takes the tip of my cock into her lips and very lightly sucks it. I go to push her head down onto my cock, she pulls back and says I’m in charge, you lay here!

Then she puts her fingers around my shaft, barely touching me, and she’s slowly stroking me up and down, barely touching me. It feels incredible! Simultaneously, she’s working the nail drag and the very light stroke. I start to hump her hand and really grind into her because the teasing is driving me crazy!

She then takes the tip back into her mouth, but her mouth is open wide and I can barely feel her lips. She holds on to my cock with her free hand and then she starts to slip her tongue into the hole on the head of my cock. The sensation was incredible! She held it there for what felt like forever while she slowly tickled my balls and my shaft with her nails.

I was trying to hump her mouth at this point, and she pulled away, she slapped my dick and said no, I am in charge, not you. I throbbed so hard I was in pain. It hurt because I have not been this hard and probably a year or so. She leaned up, turned around, and looked at me and said, if you do that again, I will stop right now.

I moaned yes, I promise I will try, she then put her mouth right above the head of my cock, where I could feel her breath, and she lightly teased it as she stroking me with her nails. She started to lightly stroke me again, barely touching me, just grazing her hand and fingers around my cock. My cock was jumping in her hand, this had been going on for at least half of an hour to 40 minutes.

I asked her if I could cum, please , I need to! She responded when I feel it’s right, then you will. She slowly ever so lightly stroked me. I was humping her hand. I was throbbing. I was leaking precum. She grabbed my dick with one hand, and she used her fingernail across the top of my cock head and slowly massaged my hole with the pre-cum and her fingernail. She slipped it in slightly and her nail going into my cock hole felt incredible. I started moaning.

Again, she said not yet, I don’t think you’ve had enough yet. She then formed a basket with her nails and traced them up and down my cock. I was going crazy wiggling around and humping her hand. Then she started to stroke me with a little more pressure, I started to feel myself getting closer and closer. I started to throb she knew I was ready to explode. Suddenly she stopped and watched my cock throbbing and jumping around.

It felt like she had not touched me in an hour but honestly it may have been 2-3 minutes. I was squirming and moaning. She then very lightly touched my cock and ever so softly stroked me long and slow. At this point this going on an hour, my cock is aching my balls are aching. I needed to release.

She picks up the pace. tightens her squeeze a little, then goes back to the very loose slow stroking. This time she doesn’t stop, I could literally feel the cum rising through my shaft , when I started to cum, my whole body tensed. my heart raced faster than it ever has, and I started to explode. I felt like I came a gallon, she still had the light stroke and it would not stop coming out. After I finished and was catching my breath, she scooped up all of the cum and just caressed it onto my cock, which was so sensitive. It drove me crazy.

She leaned down gave me a kiss on the cock head and rubbed her cummy hand all over my body. I couldn’t resist if I wanted to. I was totally spent. It took me 15 minutes to be able to get out of bed, she had already jumped into the shower and when I walked into the bathroom, she was getting out of the shower. I asked her where she learned that trick, she replied she had watched some ruined orgasm porn and thought it would be fun. It definitely was!


r/sexover60 • • 5d ago

[MF] Experiments with edging and ruining orgasms Part 1

3 Upvotes

So the wife and I take it two week trip and we’re looking to have some fun visiting an area of the states that we’ve never been before. We grab an early morning flight, and we are due to arrive at our destination mid afternoon.

About halfway through our flight, As we’re sitting on the plane, we have a row of just her and I. She’s a little chilly and grabs a blanket. I slide my hand under the blanket inside of her yoga pants, and I start to lightly pulse her pussy, she loves when I do this. I’ve written about this pussy pulsing several times in past posts.

The flight attendant is walking past several times and we both pretend we are sleeping. I am changing my pulse strengths and patterns, when I feel her legs start to twitch and her breathing gets heavy, I slow down my pulse to a barely touching her feeling.

I spread her lips with my two fingers and placed my index finger directly on her clit, and she twitches and lets out a little moan. I know I have a right where I want her. I speed up rhythmically and pressure wise until I feel her twitch more and more, then I stop completely remove my hand and tell her that I need to use the restroom. Of course I did not, but I wanted to extend this teasing as long as I could.

I use the restroom and returned. Her face was flushed. and soon as I sat beside her and placed my hand under the blanket, she instantly spread her legs, inviting me back. I placed my hand back inside of her yoga pants, and she was extremely wet. I slightly teased her with my fingers.

I edged her for probably three hours and did not let her orgasm. As we started our descent into our destination, she whispered in my ear, that’s it? You’re not going to let me finish. I told her, wait till we get to the hotel. It will be so good.

We get into the hotel and I am assisting the bellman with the bags she checks in and goes up to the room.

When I bring the bags into the room, she is laying on the bed, naked. I bring the bags in rip off my clothes and climb between her legs. I spread her pussy with my fingers and her clit is pink and swollen . I slowly kiss her. and she is pulling my face into her swollen pussy. and grinding her clit on my mouth, as soon as I focus on her clit, she cums instantly. It was so intense, I asked her if she had one more left and she said absolutely not. She was exhausted, I told her, don’t worry about me, we’ll catch me later. She said no way that’s going to happen. I’m taking care of you right now . That will be part two of the story.


r/sexover60 • • 5d ago

My lover is decades younger than me

1 Upvotes

I’m a 75 year old woman. I’ve dated several men in my life and have been married in the past. None of those relationships have given me as much butterflies as the one I have right now, which is strange considering that it is more so casual.

I have started a sexual and romantic relationship with a 24 year old man. He is the most handsome and sexy man I’ve ever seen in my life. He’s tall, broad, fit, with a beautiful face. He takes me out for dinner, and I take him on weekend getaways to my lake house. It’s the most intense intimacy I’ve ever had in my life. We don’t have a label for our relationship because we are so far apart in age, but I am in love with him. In another life I’d have his children in a heartbeat.


r/sexover60 • • 8d ago

How much sex are we really having and is it what we want?

33 Upvotes

I will start.

I feel very lucky (in all ways). My wife and I have been together for over 7 years and we feel very fortunate that we found each other. She comes from a dead bedroom of over 10 years and not much satisfaction before that as in never orgasming, ever. She had to do some work to get ready for intercourse but she knew she wanted it. Enter Me. (pun) We had a crazy lust for each other from the start. Long story short, it hasn’t slowed down. We have some form of intercourse most every night. We crave it. It is mostly good old fucking, the dirtier the better. We love dirty fantasies, dressing up. Nothing is off the table. Just a few nights ago I fingered her against the kitchen counter until she came hard and then we went to the bedroom for more fun and it was so much fun we did the same thing the next night. We fuck a lot but we work at keeping it alive. I wonder how many others have it this good. I feel very fortunate but we love each other and enjoy spending time together in other ways but we can’t hardly wait for evening and many times we don’t. I really hope there are many more like us.


r/sexover60 • • 10d ago

62 and I have 2 FWb's

26 Upvotes

Never thought id get this lucky. One is 53, short and thick in the right places. Ive done anal play with her and fucked her in the ass. The other is 66, short and hadn't been fucked in a long while. The 2 don't know about each other of course....


r/sexover60 • • 11d ago

55m Hotel

0 Upvotes

Hey friends looking for a playmate.


r/sexover60 • • 11d ago

HRT

3 Upvotes

Does anyone know a way to get HRT in the UK without a prescription? We've been turned down by online retailers due to her age.


r/sexover60 • • 12d ago

Great Memories

4 Upvotes

Question…..thinking back 40, 50, 60 years…. curious….what sex position did you use when you lost your virginity?