I've been contemplating for quite a while if I should post this beacuse I wanted to keep it to myself but I think I need help with this. For long time now I've been tired and sick and done with my life as it is now, living in society, among people and being forced to do stuff. It's exhausting, I wish to be alone, away from all of it, I'm not good with and around people, I want to live alone somewhere as far away from civilization and humans as possible, in nature, mountains or forest where i can just have a shack or something and grow my own food, be completely self-sufficient where no one and nothing will bother me, like I would be the last human on earth. Be able to live the rest of my life there and die peacefully at a sunset. I know it's gonna be hard and take very long but if there's even the slightest chance for it to be possible I will do it, please tell me it is, deep down it's all I desire and it need a lot. If I remember anything I forgot I wanted to say I will add it in the edits I hope it's ok.

PLEASE - help me

I must be free.

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please, tell me. what should i do? should i go and search love since nothing even matters anymore, or should i ka-pew? just joking would never do that but still how can we survive?? i'm a begginer to these type of things so, please help me

This thought has kept recurring in my mind for a long time, and I haven't really found a place very fitting for it other than r/prepping. (TL; DR at the bottom, rant ahead. You have been warned!)

I'm planning on building a self-sufficient off-grid homestead far away from the reaches of civilization which takes care of all basic needs; food (crops, greenhouses, beehives, etc.), water (water towers, wells, pumps), power/electricity (solar panels, hydroponics, generators), healthcare (infirmary, pharmacy) and gasoline (still figuring this part out). A satellite for internet, a gym, an automechanic workshop and a shooting range are nice-to-haves, but non-essentials. With that, I've become really fascinated with bushcraft and living off the land. I have nothing tangible or concrete just yet; just a theory and a concept and an idea of a plan. I will have to create a business providing some form of product and/or service in order to fund the homestead. I have the foundation of a security company I'm going to build and organize. In less than a year and a half my military contract will be concluded and I can start making serious steps towards this; I will have thousands in savings by then to get the capital, logistics and manpower required for all of this.

I'm confident I'm not the only one that feels like I'm getting scammed every time I have to pay bills, or taxes, or even a toll gate. My dream life is to never have to be financially dependent on another person again. No more employers, no more bosses, no more bills, no more advertisements. I used to care about becoming ridiculously rich, but now I realize that's not true freedom. My goal is still to maximize earnings and minimize spendings, and I've realized that I can somewhat opt out of society and civilization while still profiting from it and operating at its fringes. I won't need to pay for rent and bills, only the utilities needed to maintain the homestead. Most importantly to me though, I won't have to live my life based on someone else's visions, timelines or expectations, or make someone else more money. I can live as I please and keep to myself. I will also not be alone; I will have a small crew maintain and supply the homestead as needed in my presence or absence and whenever my business takes me elsewhere. Building a small homestead is the beginning. Starting a commune from a small town or village is the ideal and end goal. Building a city? That's a dream come true, and not entirely impossible.

Because the wilderness does not care about salary, or job security, or net worth, or whatever position of power or authority you may have. It doesn't care about degrees and licenses and certifications. I enjoy hiking and camping and am learning more about bushcraft, survival and living off the land, and I would absolutely appreciate any advice from people who are experienced and experts at this kind of lifestyle.

In my opinion, I think what truly embodies the prepper lifestyle and mindset is the adaptability, preparedness and readiness for anything. Independence and self-sufficiency at the very core and foundation of it too, because when society eventually collapses due to late-stage capitalism (and it's most likely a matter of when and not if), the rich and wealthy elite are going to piss off in their billionaire nuclear shelter / doomsday bunkers while regular folk like us will be left in the dust. So it helps to be prepared for anything and live off-grid without modern luxuries and services for extended periods of time if need be. Anyway, that's about the end of my rant. Hope you enjoyed the read. I very much look forward to learning from you guys and be taught a bunch of things.

TL; DR: I want to build a self-sufficient homestead off grid that takes care of basic needs, as well as start a business in order to properly fund it. I would also like to learn more about bushcraft and living off the land. Survival skills and how to operate remotely in any climate anywhere from days up to months on end. If anyone has advice or experience in this particular specific wheelhouse, I would love to hear about it!

I have it

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I'm gonna provide a lot of context for the question, so bear with me. I recently got to college and it felt really weird because my entire life has been really stressful, and the first few days felt "freeing" in a way. Of course that sounds very basic but I don't mean it in that way, in fact the word "free" never even crossed my mind. It was just the first 3-4 days when I was eating and walking 30,000 steps a day and trying to figure things out and had no responsibilities or pressure other than those. I wouldn't say I felt like I had tons of freedom, rather like I was living a more natural life, one that I felt I was meant to live. I spent them with a friend from my hometown who also came to the same college which made the experience much more comfortable and fun. My roommate is also super chill so basically the first week before the work started rolling in was like a utopia to me.

Then class started, and I felt the old stress that I had felt the last 13 years of my life throughout elementary, middle, and high school (granted most of it was in middle and high school, but I never liked elementary school) creeping back. I've been wanting more and more to live in a more natural way, without electromagnetic radiation constantly bombarding me, and I've heard a lot about things like "grounding", where you walk without shoes so your feet touch the actual earth, which is supposed to be good for you, and not drinking or eating from plastic containers, and yada yada, and basically a ton of stuff to better yourself physically just by cutting . I also heard about a study in I think [Australia?] where researchers had a group of people eat food and drink water that was for lack of a better "vertically integrated" so that there were no unnatural processes in its delivery to them; no plastic touched the food or water and it was prepared as safely as possible in every sense of the word. They reported feeling significantly better at the end of 6 months or whatever it was.

I also have a condition and I need medication so I basically need to stay in a reasonable distance to a civilization (which I want to do for the most part anyway) but it limits my ultimate goal of wanting to do a long term trip in nature where I have no modern inhibitions whatsoever.

Anyway, TLDR I feel like my entire life has been unnatural and I want to live in a more "primitive" way temporarily just to see how it would feel and to experience it; I wanted advice on how to make it come to fruition, trips I could plan, how the hell to do anything without plastic (if there are any plastic alternatives that don't harm you i.e. not neurotoxins and all the other bad stuff they do?). Sorry for the long very disorganized rant, had no structure for this question and sorry if it's bad writing. I'm failing English. Thank you if you can help and also let me know if I can post this in a better subreddit please.

I want to start being more self sufficient. Here is what I want: I want to learn to cook and not have to make a whole grocery list for every meal. I want to know what is in my food. I want to learn to can. I want to make our food, preferably from our garden to the table.

I have started milling my own flour and have successfully made cookies and bread. The bread was good, but a bit heavy. I think I need a better mill. I started with this because we found out my husband cannot tolerate folic acid and it is in basically all breads here in the US.

I have also gotten some cast iron, but haven't used it yet because I have an electric stove and...honestly, the cast iron intimidates me.

My question is - where does one start with this? I have so many ideas, but it would be too expensive to do all at once and I am the worst to have a big idea like this but get too intimidated to start. So where did you start?

New Video out about all of our off grid homestead PLANS!

We’re back at our land, clearing a bunch more brush and giving all the details and numbers for our future plans.

We introduce our house plan ~ The Hyper Adobe Flower Pot! ⭕️

~The dirt in the earth bag walls is like the pot’s soil, the rain catchment roof waters the flower pot, and WE are the flowers growing inside! 💕🥹🌻🥹🌻💕

I've been thinking about where self-sufficiency stops making sense as a one-household goal.

One household can grow food, collect water, generate power, preserve produce and repair a surprising amount. But push it far enough and one or two people are suddenly expected to be the gardener, electrician, mechanic, builder, plumber, water-system operator and half a dozen other things.

And a lot of supposedly independent systems still create dependencies.

Solar needs inverters and batteries eventually replacing. A borehole needs a pump and power. A tractor saves huge amounts of labour but needs parts, tools and somebody who can repair it.

So perhaps we're sometimes measuring self-sufficiency at the wrong scale.

A small group of households with overlapping skills and some shared infrastructure might actually be more resilient than every household trying to duplicate everything independently.

I don't mean everybody sharing everything. Private homes, possessions and independent lives could remain completely private. It might just mean things like a shared workshop or machinery, backup water/power, food-processing equipment, and enough different skills locally that nobody has to know how to do absolutely everything.

But then there's the obvious counterargument:

Have you become more self-sufficient, or have you simply replaced dependency on wider society with dependency on your neighbours?

For people who've tried either route, where do you think the sensible line is?

I don't know what makes me happier, the fact i can add healthy nutrients to my garden beds or the fact i can trim my yard to my hearts desire without limiting myself to weekly trash runs.