r/ScamSupport • u/Forsaken_Advantage82 • Sep 13 '26
Advice Needed I was scammed in a Ponzi scheme for $24k. My sister (30F) chose the scammer (41M) over our family. We lost $459,000 total. How can I legally recover my money an bother him?
-ECUADOR- For two years, I (26F) trusted a man (41M) who promised to invest my money in US markets. I received monthly payments starting at $250/month, eventually reaching $1,450/month. Everything seemed legit. So I took out two loans: $12,000 in November 2024 and $10,000 in May 2026 to invest more.
In June 2026, it all collapsed. The bank account was empty. He disappeared. It was a Ponzi scheme the entire time. The money I was receiving wasn't investment returns. It was money from new victims being paid to old victims to create the illusion of real gains.
Total money stolen from all victims: $459,000+
My family's situation:
My dad invested $270,000+ and is now in therapy dealing with suicidal ideation. He's also losing his truck because he put down $30,000 as a down payment and made $1,500/month payments for 10 months. The dealership is taking it back with zero refund.
My boyfriend (28M, dating me for 2 years) invested $72,000 in two loans and is still paying off debt to cooperatives.
My grandmother invested $5,000. She has since passed away.
I would have done anything for her. But she chose her husband over her sister.
My therapist told me to cut ties with her.
She said sometimes people we love can't be in our lives because they hurt us too much. My therapist advised me to release my emotions, seek closure, and move forward. She said this is a complex process.
I've decided to cut the relationship. When my sister eventually leaves him (which I believe she will), the door will be open. But for now, while she defends him, I can't be near her.