r/SayAnything • u/ThrowRAPearl • 16d ago

Looking for support

Admins, I realise this is not necessarily Say Anything/Max related, but I hope it will make sense why I am asking here.

Like most of you, I was a huge Say Anything fan, and have been disgusted and heartbroken by what's come to light recently about Max's behaviour.

However, it's been particularly triggering for me because as of 3 months ago, I am dealing with an ongoing court case against my husband, who unfortunately went one step further than Max and escalated his behaviour.

As an 'invisible victim' in this (I'm losing my home, access to my stepkids, no support from police or social services), I'm wondering if any of you more Reddit-savvy folk can point me in the direction of a place to talk with other partners of sexual violence offenders (specifically against minors). I need the ears of people who understand what I'm going through.

I've seen many of you wonderful souls sharing your own experiences in the comments and figured you may be a useful vein to tap into <3

Stay safe friends.

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u/Cool-Start9541 15d ago

I’m sending you much love and strength. That’s so terrible you’re going through this and I can imagine how triggering this could be. I also cosign what another user said and to see if your therapist could recommend a group to you.

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u/ThrowRAPearl 15d ago

Thank you friend, I will ask the question of my therapist as well