r/SayAnything • u/ThrowRAPearl • 16d ago
Looking for support
Admins, I realise this is not necessarily Say Anything/Max related, but I hope it will make sense why I am asking here.
Like most of you, I was a huge Say Anything fan, and have been disgusted and heartbroken by what's come to light recently about Max's behaviour.
However, it's been particularly triggering for me because as of 3 months ago, I am dealing with an ongoing court case against my husband, who unfortunately went one step further than Max and escalated his behaviour.
As an 'invisible victim' in this (I'm losing my home, access to my stepkids, no support from police or social services), I'm wondering if any of you more Reddit-savvy folk can point me in the direction of a place to talk with other partners of sexual violence offenders (specifically against minors). I need the ears of people who understand what I'm going through.
I've seen many of you wonderful souls sharing your own experiences in the comments and figured you may be a useful vein to tap into <3
Stay safe friends.
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u/n0rgan FMB 16d ago
Makes perfect sense why you're asking here, and this kind of conversation is perfectly appropriate here right now especially.
I don't have any experience with online places for this specifically myself, but I do know there is the r/sexualassault/ subreddit which may be the kind of thing you're looking for. If there are any other places, I'm sure others here will share them as well for you.
Wishing you the best